My fiance and I have been together 2 years and were getting married in one year, we currently live with his best friend due to financial problems and are moving in January but since we moved in with his best friend our sex life has gone to the dogs, lately he hardly even kisses me. We also work opposite hours so a lot of times im asleep when he gets home but i dont mind being "woken up". I try and talk to him about it and I get "what are you talking about?" type answers...
2006-10-20 07:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by hillyzg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Money is the problem. Your fiance is probably feeling insecure about your financial situation, (which often tends to over lap our sex lives). Men don't tend to let their feeling out (but yes they do have them), I suggest you both pick up temporary part time jobs, as this will relieve the financial burden. I also say that you wake him up in the middle of the night with a nice sloppy B.J. That should relieve some tension.
2006-10-20 07:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living in someone else's home can strain a relationship. It may make your boyfriend feel inadequate as a man because he cannot provide for you financially as he feels he should. Try setting a clock and be awake when he gets home, that way he doesn't have to wake you up. 2 years isn't that long to be together, I have been married for 10 and the sex is still great. You just have to make time for each other and talk about things openly.
2006-10-20 07:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the friend leaves your sex life will improve. When's the friends away you two should play. Even if it's just first base-otherwise your relationship is screwed. Mom says, "If he ain't getting it at home' he's gettin' it from somehehere!" If he's sleeping, wake his A** up and give him some bootie!
2006-10-20 07:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by red2queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is no money no honey. Very bad situation. No privacy. No life.
You must change something.
Get apart, get better job, sacrifice something for better future. Is hard but no options - takes time, but works. Is dangers but you have no choice. But when you see again each other sex is just incredible.
2006-10-20 07:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having too much sex with his best friend to have the energy to do it with you. Just kidding, maybe you should take him out of the house and start molesting him in the car or something he might not want to do it in his friends house.
2006-10-20 07:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ross B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, maybe he's just not feeling "in the mood". Change in the living conditions and the work schedules may have a lot to do with it. My husband and I just got married, we only "do it" about once a month on the average... But it has been like this since we've met, we've never been very "driven".
2006-10-20 07:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET ME TELL U THE SITUATION IS THE REASON FOR THE LACK OF INTIMACY. U GUYS R HOMELESS, WORK DIFFERENT SHIFTS COME GIVE THE DUDE A CHANCE TO GET IT TOGETHER. IT'S HARD BEING HOMELESS, YOU R A EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER
2006-10-20 07:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not in his own castle and your living with his friend. I'm sure things will be better when you guys move out.
2006-10-20 07:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is under a lot of stress. That would really affect his sex drive
2006-10-20 07:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by hapymom03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh that has to suck!
when you get the chance try talking the friend that you two are staying with. tell him/her how you feel and ask them to go somewhere one evening and allow you two to have the place to yourselves. if they agree to it, make it plain to your fiance what your wanting. whether you use sexy clothes or obvious remarks to him, he should get the idea.
good luck ;]
2006-10-20 07:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋