If you love them, let them go/give them space and if they come back...
My question is does this really happen? I am at that point now w/ my gf but really for the first time in my life. Just wanted to know if this really works/happens. Any success stories out there? Do any lasting relationships not need this to happen? I am just trying to stay patient and positive but goddam it's tough!
2006-10-20 07:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We`ll personally, when I give my bf space and I am more independent, He usually comes around. I tend to think that when things get too easy, he takes advantage of the situation. If your girlfriend loves you, she`ll realize that you are paying less attention to her and she`ll be curious to know why. Keep her on her toes a bit.
2006-10-20 07:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does really happen!!!!! My parent started dating when they were 14 and stayed together all 4 years of high school. When they left for college they decided to break up since they were going to be at opposite ends of the country. After only 1 semester my father realized he couldn't live with out my mother and transferred to a college near hers. They finished school got married and just had there 27 anniversary. My sister is in a similar situation. Her and her boyfriend have been together for 5 years but for the last 3 have been about 4 hr apart during the school year. They see each other when they can but have given the other space to find themselves and get there education that is so important to each of them. They know if it is meant to be it will work out and it has. So just do what u need to do. Every situation is different.
2006-10-20 14:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by fallenangelf99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe this is true, but only if you make it that way. If you and her break up, and you go out and meet someone, and get in a committed relationship with them then there is no coming back because there is nothing to come back to. If you said lets take a break for a while, and saw other people and kinda enjoyed the single life then when you were tired of that you two could see what would happen then it would be something to come back to. The bottom line is yes it will come back if it is meant to be, but only if you make room (meaning choices) in your life for it to come back.
It is tough but I am going to leave you with two quotes:
1) Love is what you've been through with somebody.
"James Thurber"
2) If a person does not care enough about you, and chooses to walk out of your life, then let them walk.
"Pastor J.J. Wilkins
You have to choose which quote you like better.
2006-10-20 14:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its as true as it sounds. If its meant to be you will meet them again.
2006-10-20 14:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋