my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years.. I'm 24 and he's 27.. There is this girl that goes downtown to the same bar as we do.. everytime I'm not around she is always talkin to him, wanting to shoot pool with him, but when I am there she doesnt' talk to him. So I was thinkin something was up. I told my boyfriend that I thought she liked him and he was like.. oh no were just friends thats all and thats all it will ever be.. well I asked her if she likes my boyfriend and she told me no and all this other stuff. So as weeks go by it's still the same where I find out if I'm not out then she's around him all the time.. so of course i'm gonna think that she likes him.. But I told her 2 weeks ago that I was just going to drop the whole thing. well lastnight because I was not out she went and told my bf that I was asking her if there was anything goin on between them in wich I didn't ask that.. she twisted my words around and my bf is now mad at me. So idk what to do now.
2006-10-20 07:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This girl just turned 22 and is acting like she is still 15. she knew that my bf and I would start fightin about it but she went and ran her mouth anyways.
2006-10-20 07:34:30 · update #1
You have every right to be upset! Your boyfriend needs to draw some boundaries between him and this other woman. His first priority should be *you* and your relationship. She can like him all she wants. Out of respect for you, he should stop acting like he is.
2006-10-20 07:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Demon Doll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell her to stop with the garbage and if he does not it is because he is liking the attention . I f he likes all the attention then tell him he has to make a choice he cannot have his cake and eat it too. So if he does not tell her and you need to make a choice is this the type of person that you would want to be around someone who likes attention from other girls. ? Oh and to the person who answered about the b/f not husband thing to you I say you are a worthless person if you think someone's b/f or g/f are fair game. Or does that make you a sl--? Cant figure that out .
2006-10-20 15:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is into your man! From my personal experience I can tell you that the signs are there and are obvious! You were smart enough to recognize them. I wasnt.... Hopefully things turn out better for you then they did for me! But I would becareful! Girls are bitches! They will do anything for the man that is taken that they want.
2006-10-20 14:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by confusedbuthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off your b/f has no right to be mad at you that's just a ploy to fuc* this other girl.It only matters what your b/f does with this girl b/c if he wasn't encouraging her she would have stepped off by now. your man is going to cheat so you may as well decide now if you're going to stay or not.I would see if he does and I'd try to kick his as* and surely kick hers for disrespecting me. I'd leave his as* for sure.
2006-10-20 14:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go up to her and tell her to hang out with someone else. Your boyfriend doesn't and never did need her company to begin with. Tell her you wouldn't share your toilet paper and you sure won't share your man. Or tell her you both have herpes.
2006-10-20 14:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn;t tell stuff like that to her and stop talk to her and yes you have the right to be mad at him if he can;t trust you dump him i mean he beleive her not you i bet something is going on\
2006-10-20 14:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her outside, punch her in the jaw and tell her next time you catch her talking to your man you'll slit her throat.
2006-10-20 14:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend needs to believe what you say over what this other girl says. If he doesn't, that should say something to you.
2006-10-20 14:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your man happy IN ALL RESPECTS and you'll have nothing to worry about. Make it so he doesn't want to look at other women. Don't be upset, be a better GF.
2006-10-20 14:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because if you guys break up he's open for her to persue.
2006-10-20 14:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋