Im 16 years old and i think im ugly. Everytime i look in the mirror i think im so ugly. i dont even try to look nice do my hair or put make up because im still gonna feel ugly. No guys come up to me or say im pretty just guys i dont like that im not attracted to.So i wonder why is that wats the reason? Am i not attractive why dont i attract guys i like? My friends have boyfriends but i dont know why i dont have one. If a guy that i like likes me why haven't they tried to talk to me why only guys i dont like? please help me i need some advice.
2006-10-20 07:39:29 · 16 answers · asked by agui 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah such things are a mystery. Try to keep this in mind you are feeling the same way a lot of people are. A lot. If you go through life embodying the belief that a person that you would deem more attractive than is in actuality no more better than you as well as believing that someone who loves you for you will find you then you should feel a lot better about yourself.
2006-10-20 07:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Selym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say you don't TRY to look nice...maybe that's the main problem.
If you aren't Miss Universe material you can take the best care of yourself and while you are at it work on aspects of beauty other than the physical; Personality and the ability to articulate your thoughts with precision.
Being overly concerned with ones self is a natural turn-off to others, so get more interested in others and let that interest show. You WILL become 'good-looking' if you heed this, my sage advice.
I once felt superior to the well-known Mud Fence. But when I got wise I became handsome, suave and debonaire. (The dames won't leave me alone now. If you don't believe me consider the fact that you don't see one of those personal 'avatars' with my picture...I want to be left alone sometimes.) Ok, so I exagerrate a bit. No debonaire.
Have a good life.
2006-10-20 15:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you're ugly BECAUSE you're 16.
To be attractive you have to feel attractive. Put some make up on, wear pretty cloths.
If guys you're not attracted to think you're pretty it means that people can be attracted to you, you have something. You just have to feel more confident, nobody's going to do it for you.
Don't live for the guys, do it for yourself. Don't think about what everyone else is going to think of you but just try to look nice for you. Guys are not everything.
And you'll see, the more you're confident, the more they'll notice you ^^
Every girl is beautiful, in her own way.
2006-10-20 14:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Apple Cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont approach you because you obviously have no confidence which guys find attractive.
>>learn to love yourself and love will come to you<<
thats the best advice I've ever recieved. its sounds simple but even though its quite hard to put into practice, its so worth it in the end when you can look in the mirror and feel proud of yourself.
try to only think about positive aspects of not only your appearance but also your achievments and your talents.
good luck :)
2006-10-20 14:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by FAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1t is an odd stage in your life. You need to do something to boost your self confidence. Maybe you could go somewhere and get a makeover, try a new hair style. Are you talking to the guys you find attractive? Maybe they are just afraid to talk to you first. Build your confidence and start talking to those guys. Good Luck.
2006-10-20 14:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel that way. Guy at that age (yes I was that age) are into one thing. But do not worry about them You just need time to grow a little more and you will be a swan. Just remember that the right guy is out there and you will find him one day.
2006-10-20 14:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont do anything to fix yourself up your never gonna make an impression on a guy, unless ur one of those girls who look nice w/o any makeup but since you say ur ucly ill trudt you on that. uneed more confidence. fix urself up act happy and go hang out at the mall maybe youll meet someone there. but you need to believe in yourself to know that everyone has abeauty .everyone is different
2006-10-20 15:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to think that, you just have a low self esteem. You need to just hand around friends and get over it. in another 2 or so years, it won't even matter to you.
I'm sure your not UGLY....that's kind of harsh don't you think. There is ALOT worse.
2006-10-20 14:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you feel rejected, all the while you're rejecting guys that like you and you don't give a second thought about it?
You're standards are too high. Kinda hard to feel sorry for you.
2006-10-20 14:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not ugly,,,You just have an inferiority complex and you compare yourself with movie stars who have all of it going for them. Well you can too...just tell yourself that you look good and really mean it..I wish you good luck...
I'd like to see you and tell you that you are not ugly....
2006-10-20 14:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋