we broke up 2 weeks ago because he was cheating on me! after that every one told me he still liked me and that he wanted to go back with me but i knew that some 1 that does it 1s can do it again and again! tomorrow at a basketball game hes going to be there and I dont know how am I going to react nor how my feelings!! what do i do??!
2006-10-20 07:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by PAULINA A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play it by ear. Don't let your emotions fool you. sometimes they'll tell you something that isn't true. go with some friends, supposedly female, or else he'll probably think you're going out with them. trust me, I know this stuff. Spend as much time with your lady friends as you can. Gauge your reaction when you see him, but also watch how he reacts to you. If he makes a beeline to you and starts begging for your forgiveness, don't give it to him. he's just playing the pity card. stay tough and work through it. If he keeps after you for a few weeks, use your own judgment there. Judge him on his actions. You are right, if someone does it once, they can do it again and again. there is a small possibility that he is truly sorry, but wait for a while. let yourself recover for a little while, have fun, make some new friends. odds are, that in a few weeks, he'll seem like just another dark chapter in your history.
Hang tough, I'm rooting for you. I may not know you, but I do know what it's like to get cheated on. best of luck to you in all your future endeavors.
2006-10-20 07:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by kiatzu_shutendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring someone is the way to really get to them. Just laugh show him your having a good time. He cheated on you and can beat if you take him back he will cheat again, give him the cold shoulder.
2006-10-20 14:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u see him just ignore him but sooner or later u will get over him because I know u still think about him cheating on u.
2006-10-20 14:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by chinese baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. You just said that if he did it once he, will do it again and again. Love yourself enough to know that that is all the knowledge you need to provide the strength that you need to treat him like a window pane. Just look right through him.
2006-10-20 14:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Charlotte C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, make sure you look good that day. don't even look @ his direction. it will show him what he'd lost. but what ever you do, don't get back with him. you're right. a cheater can never be fully trusted.
2006-10-20 14:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay him no attention. After all, you left him. Show him you moved on.
2006-10-20 14:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by star23grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, and never let him see you sweat
2006-10-20 14:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to do the nasty? yeah baby!
2006-10-20 14:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the jerk.
2006-10-20 14:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋