i got my tubes tyed like 2 years ago and i have 4 kids yes all by the same man but i have fallin in love and i want to give this man a baby so baddly i cry at times it costs 10,000 to get it reversed like ill ever have that kind of money.. im so damn sad and mad at myself i just thought at that time no one would want me with 4 kids and love them as there own so i did it.. and this man loves my kids and treats them as his own but i want to give him a baby.. im sad i need cheering up....
2006-10-20 06:54:19 · 11 answers · asked by Diana K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he has said he wants one also but he knows its alot of money but he never pushs it or is mad he loves me for all i am but i know we both really want one
2006-10-20 07:02:09 · update #1
Dear sad: The four children you have should be enough for the both of you to love, why would you feel you both needed another to love. It should not matter to either of you who the children are conceived by. There are so many people out there that can not have any children and God blessed you with four beautiful children to love, cherish and care for and now you have someone to share that with. Count your blessings, not what you do not have.
2006-10-20 06:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you married? If not you need to cross that bridge first. Maybe you can work out some sort of payment plan with a local doctor. Doesn't hurt to ask. But make sure you have a commited married relationship before you bring a child into the mix.
2006-10-20 07:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats the children like his own then why another child.
Remember if you do give birth to a child from him than he might treat that child only as special and look at your other four as someone else's children. Just be the way you are.
Cause men change and the new baby will change him.
2006-10-20 06:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't beat yourself up. You have 4 beautiful, healthy kids and the man you love, loves them as his own. That is what matters. I'm sure he feels blessed being a part of your family that you already have, that having another one might not even be on his mind.
2006-10-20 06:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep checking around, when I priced having mine reversed it was only going to cost me $2500., so don't give up. It might be more if u had them burned, but if u just had them tied, it shouldn't cost that much. Good luck & take care
2006-10-20 07:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you can supply him with a kid of his own. He loves you and your kids as if they were his own. That's all that matters don't feel bad. You were looking at your future when your tubes were tied. You could be in a terrible situation if you hadn't have done that.
2006-10-20 06:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think u already have four wonder full children and If he loves u as much as it sounds he does then hell understand that it may never end up happining but then again u could come along some good fortune and get the money.
2006-10-20 06:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by craziestchick_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him what he wants?
He has chosen you as you are, tubes tied and everything. You are the best thing that has happened in his life. He has proven that. Ask him what his wishes are. Maybe he doesn't want more kids in the house.
2006-10-20 06:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,,, hmmm,,, why not talk to him about it???
He may or may not agree..... and go from there...
you can adopt also.... i was and it turned out great for me.....
good luck
2006-10-20 06:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will give you a baby. if u wish i will give u more bbs
2006-10-20 06:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by i am asking you!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋