Do dreams mean something?

Question

I am married with a 2 month daughter, I love my husband very much and he treats me so good. I have been having dreams of my ex but we broke up 2 years ago because he cheated on me. And we dont talk or anything, why am I having thease dreams... I have them alot about him

Answer 1

Dreams are something that you want or need. I don't know the details of the break up, but maybe you need closure. I know it sounds weird, but maybe the way you broke up still bothers you. Sometimes dreams have no meaning. Look up the details of the dream, at a dream interpretation site. Use that as a guide to interpret a dream. Different things have different meanings to different people. Try to find what meaning best suits how you feel. Once you get more familiar with what certain things in your dreams mean to you then it will be easier to interpret.

Here are some websites for you to check out they helped me. I hope they will help you:

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/
http://www.freakydreams.com/freaky.htm
http://psych.ucsc.edu/dreams/Library/purpose.html
http://psych.ucsc.edu/dreams/TSSOD/chapter1.html
http://www.newagedirectory.com/dream/dreamanalysis.htm

Answer 2

I play an MMORPG. All the time. Called Eudemons Online. Most of my dreams are based off of that game. I dream I'm playing the game. What's sad is people put way too much into the dreams they have. I'm 21 years old. When I was around 13 or so, I had a dream that made me feel when I was 33 I would die in a car crash. Nobody else involved, lifeted up 4x4. T street. A few years off, but I don't think that what I dreamed then, will come true. Even if I had the same dream 1 time every 6 years. Things change. You change. It's not your dreams that make your future. It's your future that'll make your dreams. Don't focus on a dream you have. If anything, they're more of a symbol of something that has happend, or never will happen. A warning, something to help you avoid a catastrophe you in your life. Live the life you have, the way you want, and not by any dreams.

Answer 3

Remember, Minds are tricky. However it is your subconscious mind. It is more or less giving message at night.

Dreaming of ex often means discontent of current relationship. However, since you said you love your hubby so much. I think it may be another reason you dream about it.

This may be due to too much love of your husband. Perhaps, in reality you and your hubby don't have a single argument. Subconsciously you want to be blamed for anything just to get your hubby's attention. In real life, he shows no anger becuase you guys love each others. However, in your subconscious mind, you may not satisfied with the current situation, meaning too peaceful.

No, I don't mean you are looking for a fight. I merely said that the reason why you dreamed of ex is because you are looking for attention. To you, your ex gave you some good memory and you want to substitute him with your hubby. However, only trace of the memory of ex can satisfy your subconscience. Maybe because you both are living now. So, there is no need to dream about it. We often dreamed of something that is so near around us. but yet that could symbolize something or someone around us closely

Answer 4

Sometime they do. But there is a part of that still cares for this man although he cheated on you. But I wouldn't do anything about them are married now with a baby and you husband is good to you. I wouldn't mess up a good thing over dreams about your ex.

Answer 5

I think you desire closure from this past relationship. I also believe in telepathy and since you and your ex can't physically get together, you are coming together in dreams. Write them down and study them....note how often you dream of him and if you talk and so forth. There is definitely a reason for this. I've been through the same thing!

Answer 6

There are many theories as to what dreams mean. I believe, most, that dreams are your fears, or the things you don't like to think about. The ex is obviously going to be a sore subject for you, it is probably unresolved feelings and emotions you haven't let yourself work out.

Answer 7

There will always be a history with your ex and your mind is just picking things out to fill in the blanks. It will be less and less as time pasts. I am sure that you had similar dreams about ex boyfriends too so I wouldn't worry about them.

Answer 8

There are probably some unresolved issues. Maybe you should meet with him for a coffee or something and remember old times. This should bring up the memories of him cheating on you and then maybe you'll feel good about your present life and that should take care of him for good!

Answer 9

Dreaming results from neurological activity in the brain. The function, purpose and mechanisms of dreaming are still poorly understood. It's a fascinating subject, tho.

Answer 10

Certainly, it means something
but the relation could be too far away from what you have dreamt

but remember when you wake up, say: all good, and no bad, which means that you hope the dream is going to be good for your life and not evil...that's what I do, well of my family and relatives, we say that. you don't need to know what it means but we hope it is a good thing.

Good luck