My fiance cheated on me and I have forgiven him. We are now in the process of trying to rebuild our relationship. He has told the other girl that he does not want to be with her. Now the other girl is harassing me (calling me nonstop) and is harrassing my man (she is calling him nonstop). I realize that this is my man's responsibility to get rid of this situation.
What should I do??? Sometimes I just want to cuss her out...but for now...I am just leaving it alone and not answering my phone.
Will this girl ever leave us alone???
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What have you done???
2006-10-20 06:57:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say play her little game. Start calling her all the time. Make her think that you are just as psychotic. Don't leave incriminating messages or anything, but the next time she calls say something disgusting, like she must be nasty because every time you go down on your man you can still taste the fish. I know its nasty but women hate when people talk like thatThen call her at like 3 in the morning and tell her that you know your man is over there with her and just start going psycho. Call her all of the time demanding to talk to your man. Trust me, no one wants to mess with somebody that's crazier then they are.
2006-10-20 07:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she has physically threatened you, you will probably be unable to obtain a restraining order. I think I'd confront her in a civil and non-threatening way. Explain to her that you don't appreciate her calling YOU and that you want her to stop. If that doesn't work, you can threaten her with the restraining order. She may not know how those work.
Ultimately, you can only control your own actions: not hers, and not your fiance's either. Yes, it's his choices that have led you to this situation - but that doesn't mean you have to put up with it.
2006-10-20 07:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her number & next time she calls answer it, tell her to leave u alone & your fiance. If she won't stop, maybe you'll need to get the authorities involved. It is harassing & u don't have to put up with it. Take care
2006-10-20 07:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be for the both of you to change both cell and home phones and have them unlisted and you can also talk to your home phone provider and have them block anyones phone who are trying to block their numbers. You are dealing with a child, if things get more out of hand you should get a restraining order. I commend you and your partner for trying again but don't let someone like this other woman rip you apart because of her insecurities.
2006-10-20 07:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by bettyspagettii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go off on that crazy hoe. She think your weak because your ignoring her and acting like your scared. Show her that your the main ***** and your not going any where so she might as well move around. I know your man screwed up so he also need to put her in her place and tell her not to keep disrespecting you and let her know that it's over. GOOOD Luck.
2006-10-20 07:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Good2Go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she continues to harass you, file a restraining order on her. Your fiance needs to do the same. He picked a real "winner" to cheat with.
2006-10-20 07:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order against her. If she vilolates it, she goes to jail and finds a new significant other. Mostly likely Marge from Cell Block D.
2006-10-20 07:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should either change your numbers or if it's not an option get a restraining order out on the psycho *****.Just my opinion since she won't leave y'all alone.
2006-10-20 07:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hhmm fiance, cheated -- does that even equal marriage? as having been the other girl -- he is probably lying to her -- you might be smart to speak to her and see what is really going on?
she isn't right but u know what HE CHEATED and your not married? men tell the other woman anything and at times we are dumb enough to believe it -- is this the case? ask yourself?
2006-10-20 07:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right, this was his mess and now he has to clean it up, but it is affecting you. He is your husband and you are well within your rights to take action. I'm not saying that you should fight her or anything like that. Handle it the legal way.
2006-10-20 07:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋