My bf and i have been going out foe nearly 10 months now, although he hasn't kissed me once and is only just starting to hug me.i've dropped hints like lead balloons but he either ignores them or's just plain dumb.he also plays realy stupid and imeture,and i want to step the relationship up to antother levelwhilst he is being him and not playing the clown for his and my mates.i think i love him but how do i show my love if he won't talk to me about his feelings or let me near him without turning into stone.i wouldn't even mind if it was just a snog,at least that's better than nothing.
2006-10-20 07:15:27 · 14 answers · asked by bxiok 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 14 by the way.
2006-10-20 07:21:10 · update #1
well i had the same problem like ur bf. The problem was my careness. I care for gf more than anything so i dont want to lose her. She just like u showed many many signs but i dont want to kiss her becoz i thought it would hurt her but 3 months ago. She called me to her home . When i enter his room she was looking so beautiful that before i could kiss her she kissed me and after that i always give him wet kiss after our date
2006-10-20 07:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems strange that you went on this long without even a kiss. Are you sure you're dating, or just friends? Anyways, most guys are very straightforward, and don't like those mind games that a relationship usually brings. So just be straighforward with him, and make sure your body tone matches what you're trying to say. Even if he is slow, he should know when you're serious. If you don't get the results you want, do it again until he gets it. If you still dont get the results, then it's not you, its him, and you did the best yoou could.
2006-10-20 14:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by freefalling_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you learn this now. MEN DON'T TAKE HINTS WELL!!! That's a woman's thing. Men are plain and simple. Tell us exactly what you think and want. DON"T HINT!!! give us all the sex we want and don't hint just be direct, and we will do anything you want. Men are very simple creatures, but because women are so complicated, they assume men are. I assure you we are not. You say men have a 1 track mind? Then get on the right track!! Just tell him exactly what you want.
2006-10-20 14:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this a point where you really need to decide whether or not you really want to be with him. Its quite odd that you've been together for 10 months and havne't kissed.
If you're really concerned about it you should make the first move.
2006-10-20 14:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's your bf? Maybe he just thinks of you as a friend. if he hasn't even kissed you then (I hate to say it) he's just not that into you (as a gf). Keep him as a friend, if you want, but I'd start spending less time with him. You are not there for his entertainment.
2006-10-20 14:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are, if you are very young 14-16, then he may just be in friend mode still, boys develope slower than girls usually. If you are 17-20's he may be gay and not realize it or does realize it and is using you for cover.
2006-10-20 14:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the move...when he is least expecting it walk up to him and just start kissing him. I bet that he won't be able to resist you. Then maybe he will understand.
2006-10-20 14:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by softball_chic35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to lace his drinks baby. Lace the coffee in the morning and he'll cream his pants over you all day.
2006-10-20 14:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by big b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you...I'd get away as quickly as I could. Just break up with him and get yourself over him.
My husband is that way...and they DO NOT CHANGE. He will always be cold. He will have warm moments....but that's it. If you stay with him, you will always be longing...and lonely...and jealous of people who have warm, cozy, and normal relationships.
2006-10-20 14:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 months and just got to hugging? How old are you guys?
2006-10-20 14:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋