My bf broke up with me recently and left me stranded after being with him for almost 3 years. I was young and realized how psychologically "infantalized" i was under him even though i was socially and educationally sound. I was 19 then. Now, i've met a younger guy (but still 4 years older) and he is very Handsome. He looks just like this picture and his personality is sweet.
http://www.photorazzi.com/store/category.cgi?item=JTM-017166&type=store
The only problem is my "ex" still calls me and in his voice he seems to indicate a kind of sticky attachment thats still left in him and i'm afraid it would reignite a messed up relationship. My question is, I'm afraid to date again and the new guy asked me (a week ago) if i was in a mood to travel with him to US Virgin Island. I like him but i'm also very afraid to fall into trap? Please help. Thanks.
2006-10-20 07:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by savio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met him in a b'day party about three months ago and he had crashed over my place but never had any s.e.x with him.
2006-10-20 07:07:53 · update #1
tell your ex bluntly not to call anymore. you obviously don't want him in your life - if he can't respect that, change your number. i know it's a hassel, but it's well worth it.
i'd be leery of going on a trip with someone i hadn't known for very long, it just doesn't seem like a good idea. do something local for a while, get to know him first. if he's worth it, he'll agree.
2006-10-20 07:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love with the ex-boy than you should give it another try. If you fell like it was your soulmate then be with him. But this new guy you speak of maybe he is what you need, but you won't find that out if you dont give him a try. So what you can do is talk to your ex about this situation and see how he feels. but let the other new guy know just whats going on and see how he will react.
2006-10-20 07:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋