What i mean is if youre a girl and youre even remotely attractive all you gotta do is leave your house in the morning and guys will que up to date you. But it dont work the other way around. If youre a guy(even a good looking guy)girls will never que up to date you. I know everybody gotta make an effort to find somebody taht it doesnt just happen but sometimes it seems its a little easier for girls. Is this the way the world is, one of those things you cant change and gotta accept?
2006-10-20 07:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The difference is most guys don't care about the details first, they are just worried about what they want at the moment {a pretty girl}. Whereas woman think about the details before they make a move and tons of questions go racing through their head like Does he already have a girlfriend? {or boyfriend for that matter Lol},Will he reject me?,Does he think I'm attractive?, Because he's good looking is he most likely an asshole?,etc. The problem is woman think too much to go after they want, but sometimes maybe that's smart cuz look how woman treat most guys that come up to them. They usually shoe them away. But the answer to your question is no, I don't think it's one of those things that will never change. I think more and more woman every day are taking a risk and not worrying about rejection, I mean hell, woman these days are even proposing to their bf's , now that's a big step! Woman just need to regain their confidence is all, and I hope one day that will happen.
2006-10-21 04:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is the way the world is and you gotta accept it. It might be easier for for girls to meet guys but look at all the hell we have to go through with them. Believe me, its not a blessing.
2006-10-20 14:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like that because there are verry few woman out there strong or confident enough to go after what they want. When I first saw my husband I thought he was hot and asked if he wanted to go out that night and 7 years later we just celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary.
2006-10-20 14:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a girl will ask you out you just need to look a little better
2006-10-20 14:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋