I am a nice guy, but kind of picky. Any advice on meeting good, honest women.....let me know if I am missing something. I'm in good shape, good job, I have personality. Help a fella out!
2006-10-20 07:07:34 · 36 answers · asked by clipsegsxwidsm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you assume something is wrong with you just because your single? Enjoy it. It's the only way that you can actually have multiple dates with many people without having to establish a relationship with any of the until your ready to determine who and what you want next. Whats the longest you can actually withstand a relationship? And you did mention that you were picky so maybe you end up breaking it off with many gals who woulda made a perfect match with you. But hey, we all search for that perfect person in an unperfect world, right? Anyway, another thing may be that your searching or trying to develop a relationship too quickly with the women you are dating. Perhaps it scares them off a bit. Try listening to what these chicks want as well and then if you dont see a huge flaw in them (vice versa)that turns you off, then work from there and start your way up. Just remember, most women are picky as well. Good Luck! Have a good weekend.
2006-10-20 07:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being picky. I have found out that if you look too hard to find that perfect "someone" then you end up finding exactly the opposite of what you were looking for.
I too have been single for nearly a year. Not a bad person, good job, good kids, own my own home and cars, all paid for. And I am picky as well.
You will find who you are looking for when its time.
2006-10-20 07:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and don't be picky don't even look, have a good time. That worked for me I was single for almost 7 months and know I am talking to this guy that I see myself in the future with and the weird thing is that I meet him at my job. We work together.
2006-10-20 07:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you just sometimes have to sacrifice being picky for a women. Maybe if you try new things in the area you are picky about you will be less picky. Maybe you are just not putting yourself out there. Ask your friends if they know any women who are single you could try.
2006-10-20 07:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by BaybeeMacc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you - its just not the right time. Someone once told me "love will fall into your lap like a parachute -when you least expect it!" Stop looking and it will happen - it's all true. Im 36 and happily married - and that's exactly how it happened!!! Where are you looking? What I'd suggest is doing something you love to do - whether it's skiing, hiking, art - whatever. Join a group and do what you enjoy - you'll find someone who enjoys the same things, and let nature take it's course. I promise, if you are a genuinely good man, you WILL find that perfect someone.
2006-10-20 07:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew (and am developing) up in a unmarried father or mother family. I am simply as well academically, mentally, bodily, and emotionally as every other 17 yr historical woman. Nothing is special. I am flawlessly healthful and feature had male function units for the period of my existence. I don't suppose disadvantaged due to the fact that I would not have a father. I have got jealous of men and women with two dad and mom, however does not every person get jealous of whatever at a few factor? I suppose (in my challenge) it was once excellent for me (my father was once abusive to my mom, even for the duration of being pregnant). My mother has performed a darn well activity of elevating me. Actually, greater than a few who've support from a partner. I am near with my mother, nearer than a few of my peers with both in their dad and mom. But my mother is my mother while she should be. I consider I could instead have a million father or mother than two.
2016-09-01 00:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you...just take this time to be independent. The more independent you become, the more women will be attracted to that. If you seem to need and want women too much, that's a potential turn off to good women.
Take this time to get to know yourself. You sound young and this opportunity may be the last time you have before you have a wife and kids. Enjoy it.
2006-10-20 07:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to help you if I don't know you. I was single for 6 years before I met someone that I liked who liked me back. I usually liked guys who were unavailable and the guys who did like me, I couldn't like less. Maybe because you want a relationship, you are subconsciously turning women off because if we can sense that, it kind of comes off as being desperate. Like I said, without knowing you personally, I can't tell you what's wrong though.
2006-10-20 07:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men look on the outward when the want a lady in their life, but good, honest women (the type you're looking for ) always look inward when they want a man. Secondly you have to look in the right place for those kind of women you discribed, you don't find such by the way side
2006-10-20 07:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by kurekt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Your just waiting for the right girl and you haven't found her yet. She'll come along. I'm still waiting for the right guy and and I've been single all my life. But then, I'm only 18 so I guess my whole life isn't vey long :). So yeah...advice from an 18yo, wait. That's what I am doing.
2006-10-20 07:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jade64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋