Because sometimes they say no even if they mean yes when I ask them up-front. Is it better to just look for signs, play it cool, and go from there?
2006-10-20 07:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play it cool, you'll be able to tell.
2006-10-20 07:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no justask if she says no just play it cool just say ok then just walk away and the see what happens. im not particurally telling you to do this but when my now husband ask me out i told him no because i really did not like him but we had mutal friends but i did not know him really and they said he was nice and he kept bugging me to go out on a date with him and bc of his friends saying how nice he was i gave him a chance even though i thought it would not last well to my surprise we have two children now and we been married for 5 years now and we dated b4 getting married for six years. SO you never know until you try what may come about.
2006-10-20 14:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES....all of what you said!! If you ask them up front, it's like putting them on the spot and they lie about it to prevent hurting your feelings. Take your own advice and play it cool and look for hints.
2006-10-20 14:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her away from her friends, she's more likely to say yes.
2006-10-20 14:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Invisible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I liked a guy, and if he asked me if I liked him, I would probably blush and say yes, so if you want to know, ask her. But if she says no and really seems to mean it, she doesn't like you.
2006-10-20 14:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could do that point blank. I'd have to just watch for the signs. ...but even then you might not be sure.
2006-10-20 14:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad but if you are not going to ask here out if she tells you yes then i wouldent
2006-10-20 14:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not bad to ask ask nicely and you will get the ansewer
2006-10-20 14:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you're 12.
2006-10-20 14:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-20 14:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋