Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

From the age of 13 I have been on and off the streets because of severe family problems. I got into a lot of trouble. Went to jail, sold drugs, etc. I told my newlywed husband all this...but I didn't tell him how I was forced into prostitution twice in my life. Although it wasn't for long periods of time, it has left a terrible mark on my soul. I need to tell someone about this to free myself. I despretely want to tell my husband but I am afraid of how he will look at me. Should I suffer to keep my dark secret or should i tell him the truth?

2006-10-20 15:38:51 · 17 answers · asked by Sieanna K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm finding out that friendship is what it takes to stay together......

2006-10-20 15:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by No 3 in Singles & Dating

I've studyed dreams, I just want others opion. All the dreams are happy dreams. We don't have sex in all of them. Sometimes my husbands in them, sometimes he's not. In the dreams, alot of the time we're just hanging out, or we live together, or he tells me he loves me. Just good happy stuff. We had an argument in one though. I wake up feeling refreshed & happy. But then I see my husband beside me & I feel guilty. In real life my husbands best friend & are are close. We get along very well. He does stay with us sometimes.We're friends. He understands me & I him.We all hang out alot. In privite conversation, we have, when feeling ugly, reasured the other that their cute. Also...what does him (the best friend) saying to my husband that I'm mom material & I'm something to write home about mean? I asked him why he said that (in priviate) & he said cause its true. But he won't tell me what it means. I don't even think my husband knows what it means. Whats your take on all this???

2006-10-20 15:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by prepishippie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 12 yo. In my school many girls used to kick boys in the balls for fun and the boys never ever hit back! I can not understand why the boys did nothing, if they hit back that sh*it would stop fast. The girls that used to do it know that it hurts like hell, they know that can stop them from having babies, and they know that the boys feel abused, but they do it anyway and not only they thik is funny but I suspect they also get some kind of sexual satisfaction! And most of the girls that don’t do it think its funny and laugh at the poor boys when it happens, and that makes me mad!
Last week a boy got kneed in the cafeteria and threw up, he just walked away!!!
I could not take it anymore so I told what she did and what was going on in the school to the Principal and then to my parents. She got expelled; and all the girls where told in private that they should use that only on emergencies and that they will get punished if they do it differently.

2006-10-20 15:37:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-20 15:36:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he swears hes not.....what do i do.......would he tell me if he was.....

2006-10-20 15:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Another strange being i need to find him, it is important, yet i do not know which one i might find, but i do know the one i am most my best self with, or do I?

This guy is spechal, very spechal, i get the feeling i've known him before, i think so. Yes I do.

But the problem is I want to be a Saint. A Real Saint. So, I am constantly letting go of offers. So I am asking for something but I know that when I ask for something important it is ALWAYS refused, so, I shall hint then. And is it a sin to be friends with two guys you love differently, and is a kiss on the lips, or even better the pale princess cheek, immoral ,when your are a striving to be saint, or would such a pleaseure deprive one of their sainthood. It can be very depressing. It can be confusing, but I hope it is never missleading. A kiss can be transmitted over time and space, a kiss can be a word that is direct, one to one, on a personal level, reconnected. No, but he hates me, how could he love this twit, twitch!

2006-10-20 15:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by Bluebellofthefog 1 in Friends

I have a boyfriend, but he goes to a different school than me. He always seems so happy when he calls me, IF he calls. he's super busy. i know that. but i really want to talk to him. he says he's gonna call, but he always forgets. shud i call him? whut shud i do.

2006-10-20 15:36:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 15:35:49 · 33 answers · asked by ravingchefportsmouth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Especially if he has freckles.
Anyway what do you think about freckles?

2006-10-20 15:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

U see there is this dude at my school and i have a mad crush on him since the first day of school. Anywayz I'm not sure if he feels the same way cuz he gives me mixed signals. sometimes he talks to me and sometimes he doesnt' sometimes I would think he's looking at me from far distances. i really don't know what to do? I want to tell him but every time i go out there I end up getting hurt. what should I do?

2006-10-20 15:34:10 · 18 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy that i am truly in love with got braces. see here, the thing is, he doesnt know i love him. should the braces tear apart our future. i need help. very soon. this guy is the one. i know it.

2006-10-20 15:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by i-love-the-mavs-41 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is an old friend from way back & i last saw her in Edinburgh about 8 or 9 years ago she will know me as KIRKEY

2006-10-20 15:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by moddymex 1 in Friends

I thought i liked him, so i led him on, now he is being really clingy and we are technically 'going out' but i don't want to anymore. What is the best way to 'break up' without hurting him too much?

2006-10-20 15:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by kel_625 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy i relli like use to act like he liked me but im not sure anymore. A lot of the time he's looking in my direction but i then i think he's looking at someone behind me. I'm too shy to ask him and i just want to know if he likes me or not.

2006-10-20 15:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in the seventh grade and im not shy, but i am. Its difficult to explain but...you know. Im going to a party and my friend dance with boys but i think im too shy to dance with boys. But please answer my question. It will help!!!!!

2006-10-20 15:32:39 · 6 answers · asked by katie t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll take this one step further. If there was a reward for their capture, and you knew where they are hiding, would you turn them in?

2006-10-20 15:31:57 · 25 answers · asked by andy 4 in Family

In Dec. 2005 i was 19 and almost homeless. Staying from house to house. I met a guy named Sam. I stayed at his house. He mentioned he liked me...at the time I had no feeling for him in that way. Eventually after staying a while, I thought well he's pretty well off..this could be a good way to escape all my drama. I know it was wrong but at the time I had no way out. After a while I grew to love him. He asked me to marry me and we got married this past July. After I found out that he was in the country illeagally. He swears that that is not the reason he is w/ me. Since the wedding he has not wanted to have sex or even be around me much. I know that in the beginning my heart was not there, but now it is. How can I find out his true intentions? I don't want to get hurt. Did he marry me because I was an easy target to keep him in this country?

2006-10-20 15:31:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sieanna K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 15:31:13 · 19 answers · asked by Georgia W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you meet a girl, what do you notice more, looks or personality?

2006-10-20 15:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this guy about a month ago, he calls me everyother day and he almost never asks me out, until yesterday, we went for lunch and we had a great time. But I don´t why I canpt help but feel that he doesn´t want anything serious, I believe he´s not into me, I really like him but I just don´t know because he calls me two days then he disapears for four days, but he is really nice, and he told a friend we have in common he wantd to take things slow. So what do you think?

2006-10-20 15:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

friday night and i am home on here am i lame or what

2006-10-20 15:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to sit next to this new girl in band class and when i first sat next to her I thought she dressed really horribly, my friend Nikki ,being the out going person she is, introduced herself and me to this girl who's name is also nikki. She was really stand offish like she didn't want to speak to us. So after about a week This nikki girl would not stop talking to me, even when I gave her hints she would not see that i thought she was a pshico and that i wanted her to leave me alone. the other day my bf shanice told me she was a Satan worshiper. Im a christian so this was totally outragous to me. I asked and she said Yeah i worshiop the devil. I hang outwith all the sista girls in that class when i told them about this girl so they came up to her was about to cuss her out. they did and so we decied i should get a note from my mother saying that I would feel comfortable sitting somewhere else. But I don't like hurting people's feelings. wat should I do, she still won't leave me alone!

2006-10-20 15:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Friends

tough exterior(and I thought it would pass) , but ALL her clothes are black. She is not a bad kid, but I am starting to get worried. Should I be worried?

2006-10-20 15:29:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright...I'm a nanny for this family. I live with them. It feels like I'm always on duty...even though I'm not. The kids never listen to me...even when I am the only adult in the house. I've tried talking to the parents, but they don't think their kids are bad. So...I decided to leave, but I have 2 more months left. How do I make it through till I leave? I'm going crazy! The kids are constantly in my stuff...and even though I tell them to not get in my stuff...they do it anyways!

2006-10-20 15:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The bad *** kid always gets the girl? I am an attractive, nice kid with a great personality and it seems like girls always want the druggie or the gangster. And girls always say it has to do with personality, not looks.

2006-10-20 15:29:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 2 yrs and have a great relationship, but we always argue over a certain issue regarding our sex life. I think we have a good sex life (2 to 3 times per week on average), and typically we are both satisfied with sex. However, there is this one thing that he wants me to do that I am just NOT comfortable doing (and I'm not going to go into exactly what it is--but I will say that I am sexually adventurous, and usually open to anything, but this). We have talked about it, and he knows I'm uncomfortable with it, and things will be good for a while, but then he'll ask me to do it again. This thing makes me feel very uncomfortable and turned off, but he feels as though I should do anything he wants me to do if I love him enough. I don't know what to do...stay strong and refuse to do this thing that makes me so uncomfortable and turned off or give in and do it despite how much I hate it just because he wants me to? *serious answers only please*

2006-10-20 15:29:11 · 19 answers · asked by missapparition 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 15:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by eng_meda 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 15:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tough exterior(and I thought it would pass) , but ALL her clothes are black. She is not a bad kid, but I am starting to get worried. Should I be worried?

2006-10-20 15:28:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships