I meet this guy about a month ago, he calls me everyother day and he almost never asks me out, until yesterday, we went for lunch and we had a great time. But I don´t why I canpt help but feel that he doesn´t want anything serious, I believe he´s not into me, I really like him but I just don´t know because he calls me two days then he disapears for four days, but he is really nice, and he told a friend we have in common he wantd to take things slow. So what do you think?
2006-10-20 15:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about this for a suggestion. He wants to take things slow. How hard is that to understand? And how glad should you be that he's not wanting to jump into bed with you on the first date. He wants to let things grow naturally, and he'll get serious later on. It's the best way there is to let a relationship mature and develop into something special. So don't rush him. Go along with it, and enjoy his company.
2006-10-20 15:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time, if he likes you and wants to pursue a relationship with you then he will. He doesnt have to call you everyday to show you that he's interested in you because hes not your boyfriend. Let him do him and you do you and then see what happens from there.
2006-10-20 15:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have been hurt in a previous relationship and just wants to get to know you and take things slow...enjoy the romance and let it unfold naturally. dont be afraid though to give him encouragment...like i really enjoy being with you...i always look forward to your calls...stuff like that
2006-10-20 15:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking things slow for now is smart. better slow than none at all , right? if you are pushy now , it will only drive him away from you. let things happen naturally. and if you play a lil' hard to get this will cause his interest to grow towards you too.
2006-10-20 15:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he dont know what he wants
u really need to talk to him ask him what he wants. be suttle about it by the sounds of it he seems a bit shy. dont forc anything becuause ur likely to push him away
2006-10-20 15:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if for him slow means talking to you one day and disapearing 5 days then he is not worth your time
2006-10-20 15:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he want to take things slow then take things slow and don't rush it he may have feeling for you and is trying to slow them down good luck
2006-10-20 15:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt want ot mve to fast like he said and he wants to realy get to know you becasue in the future he wants sometihing serious.
2006-10-20 15:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want anything serious, its still fun to go on dates and just hang out. =)
2006-10-20 15:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just not the settle down type. sounds like you got yourself involved with a real badboy!
2006-10-20 15:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋