U see there is this dude at my school and i have a mad crush on him since the first day of school. Anywayz I'm not sure if he feels the same way cuz he gives me mixed signals. sometimes he talks to me and sometimes he doesnt' sometimes I would think he's looking at me from far distances. i really don't know what to do? I want to tell him but every time i go out there I end up getting hurt. what should I do?
2006-10-20 15:34:10 · 18 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll never find out by daydreaming about what might become honey. Take the initiative and ask him out after school. Tell him how you feel. I'm not saying he will feel the same way, but at least you'll know and will be able to either get a relationship going with this guy, or, after a short recovery, start getting interested in other guys. But, I'll tell you this, nothing is worse then having a puppy love crush that the person of your affections does not know about. And, if you don't let him know now, he may find someone else later, not knowing how you felt. And, I'll tell you from personal experience babe, nothing hurts worse!! Best wishes to you.
2006-10-20 15:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER let past rejections steer you in any kind of direction. You will only end up under a rock!! And thats not a fun place to be. FAILURE LEADS TO SUCCESS!! Remember this please...in any situation. The more you fail the more you learn and although it hurts there is no shame. So get the courage from urself to just confront him! Dont wait for him to decide when it is a good time to talk. Just go for it....and if he ends up not being interested then his loss. And move on to the next! Life is WAY to short to be concerned what others think of us..no matter how "cool" they are! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-20 15:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by nikki nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to tell, men/boys like to give mixed signals. Or at least that is what it feels like to a female. Today he talks to me tomorrow's I an invisible to him. So what is he thinking? Well I am a lot older than you well maybe just a little older. I remember when I saw my husband at school, gee I really liked him so I sacrifice my extra time I had on my hand to talk to him. I made sure it did not look obvious. But when he went to his locker I did too. I made small talk. Like your taking that class too or I have heard about that teacher or well you know what ever you kids talk about these days. I would not make it seem like I was trying to hard. Then after time I thought to myself that I like him even more and he thought the same, I did ask him out though. Then we got married after time.
2006-10-20 15:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mother of two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, if there's mixed signals, there's a chance. I don't think you should do anything. I think you should just be yourself. If the guy likes you, he would know what to do. On your part, just keep cool and don't try to be all desperate and gigglish everytime he's around. He'll freak out!
2006-10-20 15:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you get hurt? does he trip you or something? You are crushing way too hard. just stay in the sidelines and keep dreaming about him cause if he wanted to be with you he probably would have made the move by now
2006-10-20 15:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like he is very interested in you, in fact it sounds like he could take or leave you. If I were you I'd just do the things you usually do and don't worry about if he likes you. If he did he would let you know.
2006-10-20 15:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get that feeling too when i see a certain guy. usually it doesn't work out for me, so i forget about him and go for someone i actually know, that way, there's a less chance of being hurt. ^_^
2006-10-20 15:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by pooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be paitcent cause if he like you he'll ask you out but if he dont then you should try to find someone else
2006-10-20 15:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his plans are for the weekend and see if he wants to kick it if he's not busy :)
2006-10-20 15:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go tohim and tell your fellings that way he'll know. what do you know maybe he has a crush on you to
2006-10-20 15:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Paramorelovesconcubine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋