I have a boyfriend, but he goes to a different school than me. He always seems so happy when he calls me, IF he calls. he's super busy. i know that. but i really want to talk to him. he says he's gonna call, but he always forgets. shud i call him? whut shud i do.
2006-10-20 15:36:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all guys no matter their age says they will call and never do! and if he is "too busy" for u you should get a bf that has time for you
2006-10-20 15:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay long distance relationships are tricky. Believe me I know...my boyfriend is in Korea (the military). I get the samething. He gets to busy or he's out with the guys. At first this frustrated me and I was really upset. But i realized that it wasnt him it was me. I was literally waiting by the phone for his call or waiting online! I was blowing off my frends and my career for HIS PHONE CALL. I slowly realzed this was not healthy...and I had to start getting out and staying just as busy as he was. We still talk..like maybe 2 a week. But it is great cuz by then we have sooo much to talk about! So relax and go out and have fun stay busy. And if you absolutely need to talk..he is ur man...dont hesitate to call. If he's not there then leave a message. If he starts not returning ur calls then maybe u need to find a new guy! GOOD LUCK! OOO and its all about trust...if the trust isnt there on ur side then forget it.it'll never work!
2006-10-20 15:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by nikki nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this could really mess up the relationship talk to him let him know how you feel but dont acuse him of anything just talk to him calmly. I know how you feel Im in the same situation. My boyfriend goes to a different school and has alot of work to do. My baby is always sleepy so there are times we dont talk cuz he is sleeping. I got use to it and i trust him so it really doesnt bug me. Im telling you by expirience this type of relationship works it just depends on you if you could live with it. Look at me my boyfriend have today 3 years and 1 month and we are happy!
2006-10-20 15:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him first. If he's not home, ask his family when they think he will be home. If he hasn't called in an hour after hes supposed to get home, call him back. Maybe he's not getting your messages.
2006-10-20 15:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM THEN PICK UP THE PHONE GIVE HIM A CALL FOR A CHANGE. INSTEAD OF HIM CALLING YOU ALL THE TIME
2006-10-20 15:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by mahrjasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then call hI'm and tell him you miss talking with him and he needs to put so time aside for you'll to talk or either email you or im you good luck
2006-10-20 15:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
transfer to his school that is probably a way for you two to spend more time together
2006-10-20 15:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your question at all, but I just wanted to tell you that I want you to choke on my bon*r. And how.
2006-10-20 15:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋