I've studyed dreams, I just want others opion. All the dreams are happy dreams. We don't have sex in all of them. Sometimes my husbands in them, sometimes he's not. In the dreams, alot of the time we're just hanging out, or we live together, or he tells me he loves me. Just good happy stuff. We had an argument in one though. I wake up feeling refreshed & happy. But then I see my husband beside me & I feel guilty. In real life my husbands best friend & are are close. We get along very well. He does stay with us sometimes.We're friends. He understands me & I him.We all hang out alot. In privite conversation, we have, when feeling ugly, reasured the other that their cute. Also...what does him (the best friend) saying to my husband that I'm mom material & I'm something to write home about mean? I asked him why he said that (in priviate) & he said cause its true. But he won't tell me what it means. I don't even think my husband knows what it means. Whats your take on all this???
2006-10-20 15:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by prepishippie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your dream is a reflection of what's going on in your real life...and maybe deep down in your subconscious, u have a thing for your husband's friend.
As far as your other question about the comment he made to your husband, it means u are a good and worthy woman.
2006-10-20 16:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several things or ideas come to mind as you speak. First, there is attraction between you and "the best friend." Nothing unusual about that attraction. Man and Woman = attraction. For example, a woman shape as you know is attractive to a man even when it is a family member or wife or a friend. That is normal. However, lots of people feel guilty about the attraction and just don't ask anyone about it for fear of being embarrassed. This is a mistake. If you have the need, you or anyone should see a professional about it. They can explain the situation in five minutes to your satisfaction. The first time I felt stimulated by my beautiful young daughter sitting on my lap was difficult, but it did not take me long to figure out to move the child to a more appropriate position while she sat on my lap. Many men unfortunately feel really very strange and forever avoid their daughters normal touch for fear that he may have those feelings again. I realize this is not what you were asking about exactly, but it is important and related. Many fathers and daughters relationships are damaged by this experience. The fact is, human history is written in the human genes, and it is all still there, and part of it is mixed feelings around sex and inappropriate sex attractions. There is just a different way or role to interrupt and make it part of a lasting and proper relationship. It is good to recognize and appreciate your child's sexuality or a friends opposite sexuality without more than a silent mutual understanding and even a recognition of the event, but don't spoil it. Sex does make the world go round in more than one way!
2016-05-22 06:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream of relationship often happens when you get married. In you case, it comes between the best friend and your hubby.
Something to write = insecurity
Mom material = guilt consciene
That means you need to start a family (if you don't have any kids yet) Having something to write could mean you are insecure about people around you or your hubby.
2006-10-21 00:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what the dreams mean, probably nothing. But your conversations with your husband's indicate he might have a crush on you! Is that what you're dreams are really about? Hmmm.
2006-10-20 15:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by charlie_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know in my studies , i have learned that dreams are part of the subconscious mind. which pushes these thoughts into your dreams making them conscious thoughts. we are the the ones to hold whether or not these dreams become reality....and sense you are married , not a good idea honey.
2006-10-20 15:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 07:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it means that you failed your rudimentary grammar classes...it's "husband's"...never forget your possessives....now stop dreaming and finish 7th grade....
2006-10-20 15:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋