he swears hes not.....what do i do.......would he tell me if he was.....
2006-10-20 15:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i really dont think so. Its pretty scary but there are alot of men who are in the closet and be with woman. After being with my exhusband for 10 yrs. i found an email today stating to his so called best friend.."keep that little bootie tight for when i smash it later, *****..." no you tell me if that isnt gay/ How sick is that and i have two children with him and on and off for 10 years divorced because he would go out almost every weekend AND he cheated on me with a married woman and had 2 more kids with her. And the dude continues to beg me to give him another chance. He does not know that i found that emailed he used my computer and left his password and email address locked in my computer. So yeah i really dont think men will ever tell you. Im so emabarrased for myself and children and i cant even tell him that i found that email. And there is no excuse for that NO straight guy would right that to his closest friend. not straight atleast. right
2006-10-20 21:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by jane do 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't count on him telling you .. he might not know. But the question is, does he turn on to you. You could still be a very special and close girlfriend to a gay man, though he wouldn't do the thing your body most needs. Do you care enough about him to put up with that frustration? Good luck.
2006-10-20 15:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm gay also. all of us have adult males that we in basic terms want so undesirable and may want to imagine life with them and the happiness that is there. yet those type of fantasies are demanding to make ensue if the guy does no longer even comprehend you. you would possibly want to very nearly be listed as a stalker once you've studied him the way you say. Introduce your self to the guy and enable your gaydar take over. If there's a touch flame there fan it a touch with some compliments about his looks, clothing, cologne, vehicle, and so on... you are able to properly be shocked and he has said you yet no longer responded. in basic terms proceed with caution - a black eye or busted nostril takes a lengthy time period to heal and so does the coronary heart.
2016-12-05 01:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay in our current culture is a big stigma. Most people who are gay are not comfortable talking about it with everyone. Some people who are gay are not comfortable with the idea and can't admit it to themselves.
Then again, many heterosexual people appear gay. I know many people who people mistake for homosexual often.
He tells you he's not gay, then you have to take his word for it. Focus on how you feel when you are together, not your fears.
2006-10-20 15:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Link Correon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says so, believe him. A gay won't even like to start with you much less swear that he's not.....
2006-10-20 15:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he had any previous relationships? This may offer some help. See how he acts around hott guys. Is he interested? None of these are real definites, but they may help.
2006-10-20 15:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl WAKE UP if hes is gay i really dont think that he will be with you.but if he is gay i think that he should tell you before your heart broken.but ask before you think you in love.but one more thing,make sure plzs that hes not gay
2006-10-20 15:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it al depends how long youve known him
waht does he do that make you think hes gay
2006-10-20 15:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by lizzy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should tell u b4 u tell him if he really feels the same way
2006-10-21 04:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him. You'll just contract aids and spread it to the hetrosexuals. Don't screw gay men.
2006-10-20 15:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋