Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

2006-10-19 14:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mitch M 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my girl have had oral sex and all that but we are both selfcon. about the other seeing us nude when we are not groomed... like we both are scared the other might say somting about it orsomting and we came up with a deal for us to concor. this fear together. what can we do together that will concor this fear we have?

2006-10-19 14:57:56 · 1 answers · asked by ineedsomehelp20191 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He seems interested in having "fun" but being extremely careful about it. Any ideas about how to do this. We realize it is extremely dangerous to our positions but can't seem to resist. I'm not interested in any sarcastic comments. I would prefer the useful advice and/or any thoughts on how we can manage this.

2006-10-19 14:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by wannaknow 2 in Singles & Dating

My necklace broke at work and my boss took it and said he will fix it for me and give it back. It is now over 3 months that he hasn't given it back to me! I asked him twice whether he has got a chance to fix it and he said that he's been very busy. It doesn't have any monetary value but it was the last thing my father bought for me before he dies and I really love it. My boss is not very friendly and I am scared to ask him again. I don't want him to fix it at this time, I just really want it back!! What should I do? I feel irritated.

2006-10-19 14:57:26 · 12 answers · asked by GucciGirl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's very different from a lot of guys that I have liked. I don't even know if I like him or not. I don't think he likes me in that way though. A lot of people think hes weird but I just think hes funny... but he can be weird at times... I don't know what to do... I know I shouldn't worry about what people would say but I don't want people to make fun of me... Also I'm really shy so I wouldn't be able to tell him I likes him. what should I do I am so confused... please help! thank you

2006-10-19 14:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to someone that I am not in love with anymore and that I absolutely hate, I am only with him for financial security, I was in the process of leaving him but found out I was pregnant and stayed. Well now my baby is 2 months old and I dont want her to grow up around us fighting all the time. Whats the best way to become independent and leave his @$$? (Oh, and I always quit my job and quit college to stay at home with my baby, so I have nothing at all)

2006-10-19 14:56:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you had both circumcised and uncircumcised partners?

Which do you prefer?

Why?

How did intercourse feel different?

would/did u circumcise your boys?

2006-10-19 14:55:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.

I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.

2006-10-19 14:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Singles & Dating

i was dating this girl for 6 month and then we broke up cuz of me , after i year i am trying to get her back, tried everything to get her back but she dont wanna talk to me, i even call her,no anser and she change her number i aim her, she change her screen name, what can i doto get her back in my life

2006-10-19 14:54:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.

I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.

2006-10-19 14:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 14:54:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.

I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.

2006-10-19 14:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a frend but i hate her now and she nos shes mean to me and called me a ***** and *** hole on email she thinks shes so much batter than me at everything doesnt think of others feelings, and lies i only was her frend cuz i thought shed change but she didnt wat do i do my mom suggested that i see a scool conselor but that makes me feel like those wierd kids who need HELP like mental help that r really sensitive but im not like that PLZ HELP!!!!!!

2006-10-19 14:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.

I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.

2006-10-19 14:53:29 · 20 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Family

I have been dating my boyfriend for some months now and he knows i am going through a divorce. But now my husband doesnt want to get the divorce. My husband is pushing off turning in the papers. I dont want to be with my husband anymore, I want to be with my boyfriend i know he is the right one.

2006-10-19 14:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by babydevil200669 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theyre lying constantly about their looks everyday
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFPGa0pKyTg&eurl=

2006-10-19 14:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you like most about men personality and looks?

2006-10-19 14:50:08 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im at college and i've only met him once for about an hour and another time for about 10 min. i met him the first time a week ago.

ok soooo after the hour that i met him he commented on facebook after i commented on his page and said... we should hang out sometime, you seemed really fun! : )

later after we talked online for the first time he said, "IM me ANYTIME"

and last... yesterday he asked me to go to dinner in the cafeteria w/ him and his friends.
i went but could only stay for about 10 min. cuz i had class.

do you think he likes me at all? what are the signs?

2006-10-19 14:47:03 · 12 answers · asked by mayso 2 in Singles & Dating

I live a long hard life at the age of 27 Im just about to give up I cant even tell you one percent of my misery. I have a husband that I know talks about me behind my back,im screaming inside and dont know what to do, please dont talk to me for the mean people out there answereing peoples questions, I just want someone to give me some hope, I have four kids and im a meserable mom not to my kids but in my soul, my favrite song is tears of a clown it reperesents my life I laugh all day when I cry inside! I feel as if I dont have anyone to talk to thats why im here.

2006-10-19 14:46:40 · 25 answers · asked by TOKISA NEED HELP PLEASE, THANKS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 14:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by doubleK 2 in Singles & Dating

So sweetest day is this saturday and my girlfriend and i both work. I have to work during the day and her at night. I want to do something really special to show her just how much i love her. They only thing that i could really think of is to suprise her outside after work with some flowers. i know its kinda the same old thing but its hard cause we both gotta work. Does anyone have any other ideas? i really love her and want to make her feel like the most important and loved person in the world.

2006-10-19 14:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend in NY but I live in Jamaica . We love each but i want to know if long distance relationship usually work out so im not surprise if we break up.

2006-10-19 14:45:22 · 14 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:44:57 · 2 answers · asked by jennystarrr 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little under about 3 years and 90% of that time we've been living together, so we pretty much know everything about each other....not to mention our 15mth old daughter that we have together. The problem is, I'm ready to get married and I don't really think he is. Yeah he tells me all the time that pretty soon were gonna get married but he just doesn't know when. At this point I'm just about givin up, I'm really tired of waiting. I've even told him before that if he didn't make his decision then I was gone. So what should I do?

2006-10-19 14:44:49 · 8 answers · asked by Moody 1 in Singles & Dating

Please explain your answer.

2006-10-19 14:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do girls always fall for guys who treat them bad and dont care about them.. who cheat on them and walk all over them?

Ive never really been able to figure that out.

2006-10-19 14:42:08 · 30 answers · asked by Purcell10 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, don't roll your eyes..but I need ideas. I was thinking about going along with giving him 25 different things, or doing the quarter century presents ... i dunno..im kind of lost and id love some ideas. His birthdya is TWO days before christmas. He's due back from Iraq (after being there a year) in early december..so it has to be good. Id love some help!! Thanks!!!

2006-10-19 14:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it possible to just do it one time without all the back and forth?

2006-10-19 14:41:56 · 8 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a redhead and i have guys telling me that my hair is hot all the time, but then some guys say "ew" to us. honestly, what is the hottest hair color and why?

2006-10-19 14:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Singles & Dating