Why do girls always fall for guys who treat them bad and dont care about them.. who cheat on them and walk all over them?
Ive never really been able to figure that out.
2006-10-19 14:42:08 · 30 answers · asked by Purcell10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the old saying....treat them mean keep them keen comes to mind......we all go through the stage where we tend to date unfavourable guys....but in the end you grow up....learn by your mistakes and you marry someone who treats you the way you want to be treated (in my case anyway)
2006-10-19 14:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no person that enjoys being treated poorly by another. Trust me, sooner or later, no matter what the relatonship is, (couples, siblings, parent/child, employer/employee, friends) the abused will walk away. Sometimes, because of our faith in human kind, it takes some people a little longer than others. But eventually, they do move on & believe me the world continues to spin inspite of it.
2006-10-19 14:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately low self esteem. Possibly coupled with how they were brought up and saw the adult women interact with the men in their lives. Some people have a deep need to "rescue people" and therefor are attracted to hopeless causes. This never ends good because they don't get what they really need from the person because the person is incapable of giving it.
It is most often the reason why young girls get pregnant on purpose... they want someone to love them back when really what they need are adults in their lives who will show them love through expectations and parameters.
2006-10-19 14:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Subi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These guys are fascinating to the girls, but when the relationship is in full-swing, the guy shows his true colors, but the girl sees the good and hopes to change him back to the way he was when they met. It's all in the hope that the feeling she got in the beginning comes back. It never does, but she keeps on trying. It's kinda like a drug addict who is constantly chasing that first high. After the first high, it's never quite the same, so you have to double, triple, or quadruple the dose to get the same effect.
2006-10-19 14:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many different reasons. I have heard alot of girls say they think they deserve ti which can also be refered to as low self esteam. and they also think they can do no better. and they may be scared of living alone. they don't want to be lonely. They may think it will all get better. Or they may feel like their live improved in many aspects when she got with the man. She may be in love and just hopes that she is wrong. That she is just overeacting. There are many reasons. I use to see women like that weak. Until one day I woke up and I was one of those women and truth is if you have never been there then you have no idea how hard it is to leave. and the strongest girls of all are the ones who do leave. and I give all credit to those girls and I hope everyday that the ones that feel like they can't leave one day relize they can.
2006-10-19 14:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have poor self esteem. The more I hang out on this board the more I realize how COMMON it is. Not ALL girls are mindless sad cases though--- You must be looking in the wrong places because I know plenty of women with incredibly high standards that wouldn't put up with any of that bs for a minute.
2006-10-19 14:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by josie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl lets a guy treat her like that then she is a stupid fool.
A woman that has had experience dealing with men won't put up with being mistreated. Guys only do to a woman what she lets them do.
2006-10-19 14:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of girls that take it have low self esteem and feel like no one else would care about them. people want people to love them and care for them, and if it's someone who does't do it the best, at least it's someone. also, they usually don't know when they get into it, and then they are scared to leave.
2006-10-19 14:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, they don't know the guys are going to treat them that way when they get involved with them...and then their low self esteem and neediness keeps them in bad relationships because they convince themselves they'd rather stay than be alone.
2006-10-19 14:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bloody good question!! Ive been there many a time. i think in my case it was to do with self belief an all that. I think we all go thru a phase. I can now say im happily over it!
2006-10-19 14:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by l1ttlekat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋