Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.
I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.
2006-10-19 14:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a married man of 23 years...working in a male dominant environment...you have given him the whole basket without even asking for a security deposit...Yikes!
Respect yourself!
Lust is physical, Love is emotional, Commitment is discipline.
Respect yourself!
Please, please, PLEASE respect yourself.
2006-10-19 15:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lives7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some fun of your own, act like you dont even know about the letter, let it go and find out some more dirt before you kick his *** to the curb, which is exactly what you should do, there ARE other men, men, not boys. Oh and your man is a serious loser, he doesnt have anything to do with his other kids, you will be next mark my word on it.
2006-10-19 14:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is "When did he write the letter?" my next one would be "Why did he write the letter?"
Sounds to me like he wants his cake and eat it too. Be careful because you have found the first of many red flags you will start seeing about him. Has he had a lot of contact with this woman? Is he just trying to get out of paying support to her or is he just not over her? I would ask and receive honest answers from him or I would be living alone.
2006-10-19 15:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nerdy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really f**ked up. Apparently he's not being honest to either one of you. But before you say or do anything just wait, keep your ears and eyes open before doing anything.
2006-10-19 15:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋