i have a frend but i hate her now and she nos shes mean to me and called me a ***** and *** hole on email she thinks shes so much batter than me at everything doesnt think of others feelings, and lies i only was her frend cuz i thought shed change but she didnt wat do i do my mom suggested that i see a scool conselor but that makes me feel like those wierd kids who need HELP like mental help that r really sensitive but im not like that PLZ HELP!!!!!!
2006-10-19 14:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
TRUST me. Getting advice from anyone , wether it be a school counselor or your mom, is a good thing. Even it you don't agree, or follow advice, its always helpful to hear what other people think. Figuring everything out on your own is so hard. There are so many differing opinions and tugging from all directions, how is anyone suppose to know what is right? well the best way is to hear what people say, really listen, and make u p your own mind. If some friend is threatened by this , she obviously has huge problems of her own, and you shouldn't be bogged down by that. You go say prayer, asking God to give you the wisdom to know who to listen to ... and he will!!
Don't have friends that are rude and disrespectful to you because you think you can change them. Its not your job to change them. You just get yourself straight, and listen to older wiser people, and hopefully you will be in a position to help someone like her someday. Getting help, is the surest sign that you are NOT mental! We ALL need help. There is NO shame in getting help from wherever you can.
2006-10-19 16:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Coco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just stay away from her hun. She obviously has issues that dont need to concern you. If she feels the need to call you certain things then let her get on with it if it makes her feel better just dont listen to her. If she dont apologise then just forget it! She aint worth your time. Im sure you have lots of friends that are much better than her. You dont need friends like that. Im sure you dont need to see a councellor, just make sure your not alone in how your feeling. Make sure you have sum1 to talk to whether it be a parent or a friend. Chin up hun. Your better than her.
2006-10-19 22:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by l1ttlekat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a guy at my school exactly the same you just gotta tell her to shut the crap up the world does not revolve around her and if that doesn't work just ignore her
2006-10-19 22:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by tacobob19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey god this girl sounds like a real meanie which is not cool in my books, i would tell her to grow up, and then go find a nother friend to hang with you dont need those childish games!!!!!
2006-10-19 22:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by night_byotch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, counselours are not just for special ed kids. im a teenager and im sayin that moms ARE always right! trust me on this one :-) good luck... im in the same boat with friend troubles.
2006-10-19 22:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIGHT THAT *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 21:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by The infamous bongblaster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋