Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

Ok my friend just called me crying asking me if she was raped or not. I said yes what do you think. She said this morning she and her boyfriend went to have sex and why they were having sex he fliped he over and started having anal sex with her. She tolled him please stop and he said no please just let me finish. she said she started saying please stop and keep repeating it. he said quit begging or I will just go harder. she asked one more time he started going harder. she tolled him " you are herting me" she said stop and then he started telling her to shut up. she tolled him three times " get off of me" and then she started crying and he jumped off and started screaming at her" oh please please get off of me, that is so annoying. You wanted to get laid and now you are telling me to stop just because it herts. You are a pshyco." he walked near her and she coward and he said " oh now you think I am going to beat you." what do you think she wants to hear it from someone besides me.

2006-10-19 15:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Working on the self esteem thing? Seek professional help, but I still love the man. I should say the man I fell in love with & not this jerk he has become. Divorce him is easy to say. How can you be married 26 years and then have a court give you a piece of paper and say you are no longer married. I have to break a old habit and I am asking how. Come better than you need a shrink. I want retribution. Best be told, needed my head checked 26 year old. I nursed a young tree to health and now the tree wants to take over and run wild. I want to prune it or chop it down, but my heart say you watched it grow and it grew with you. I am not crazy just heart broken. I don't need him, just wanted him. Do I love him or just hate the fact he is with another woman. I have a good job and a nice place to live. I am blessed with two grown children and two grandchildren. Anniversaries are hard to deal with. Just don't want to be the other woman. He treats me as if I am the other woman and she the wife.

2006-10-19 15:17:34 · 14 answers · asked by Chyna R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that men like to watch women when they are relieving themselves on the toilet?It's something my boyfriend likes to watch me do.Is this normal?

2006-10-19 15:16:49 · 22 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 15:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by hot mama 1 in Friends

ive been married for almost eight years. i have children and for the most part im content. my husband is a loving and caring person. and though we've had our ups and downs he's always supported me the best he could. we separated f two years ago and got back together last year. i have a secret that eats at me everyday but i try to keep it out of my head as much as possible. i am attracted to women and during our separation i acted on some of my feelings but i withdrew from any physical contact because of fear. when i was eighteen i actually had a relationship with a female and i thought it was just a phase. but my urge for female companionship is getting harder to ignore. i feel horrible for my family. i dont know what to do but i dont want to hurt my husband or my kids.

2006-10-19 15:16:26 · 21 answers · asked by mikki n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want everybody to know who she is , hopefully her boyfriend will read it

2006-10-19 15:14:05 · 40 answers · asked by val l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont like the traditional wedding march as I would like to stay away from tradition, however, I would like a really beautiful mystical song to walk down the isle with. I have searched all websites for that special music but cant find anything. I like enigma, enya, dido, classical (but not funeral music) - that sort of stuff. I also like Sarah McLachlan's Silence from Brokedown Palace but feel that is too fast - if anyone can give me a site where I can get that song... only with the music not words - that would be great... otherwise please help.

2006-10-19 15:14:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you could choose to exchange it for anything what would it be?

2006-10-19 15:13:40 · 3 answers · asked by ljean 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

& me & his friend broke up bout a week & a half ago. well yesterday bob IMed me & started askin me who i liked again & then he was callin me a whore cuz one of my friends did one day as a joke then was sayin that im afraid of guys i called him a closet case, he said trust me theres so much u dont know, & then we just kept arguing bout it goin back & forth after awhile he was like how do you wanna settle this bet & then we started arguin bout who had to say how to solve it first aftr awhile he was "well im a guy…u better decide" i said no & we kept arguing after awhile i just asked him if he was thinkin we should do somethin & he said not necasarily me & i asked if he meant my ex & he said maybe so i said no, he asked why, i said i didnt like him anymore, then we fought a bit whether he was trying to get us back together & he said he wasnt, he didnt necasarily mean my ex

i know some signs point to that he prolly likes me but later that night completely changed what he sayin i asked

2006-10-19 15:13:39 · 2 answers · asked by lindsey.. 1 in Singles & Dating

well, this all started off real bad, and i have been kind of in a state of depresstion since before this school year started

I have been rejected 2 time in one month by two girls... talk about a let down. yet now i really am starting to get some feelings back for one of my ex's. the only problem is there is a reason that we broke up. to start things off, she cheated on me the first time we went out, but i forgave her for that, and the guy came up to me and said i apologize, something he wouldnt do most of the time... but ya, then not to long after she broke up with me and went out with the same guy, and did things with him i would rather not repeat. after that we went out one more time, and she broke up with me because another ex asked if i wanted to go camping with her that weekend, and she claims she saw a *glint in my eye* and broke up with me. but know i have these feelings for her again, but i really dont wanna mess up our friendship if things dont turn out to well. help??

2006-10-19 15:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by thelordsangel05 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a senior in high school and my ex broke up with me 2 monthes ago. I still think about her and feel like i need her but it cant work out.

2006-10-19 15:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by im bringing sexy back 2 in Singles & Dating

some kid kinda asked me out saturday and then he said he liked a girl and i told him what to do about and come to find out i told him how to get with my bestfriend what do i do?

2006-10-19 15:11:39 · 8 answers · asked by katie s 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey evryone can you view my 360 page and tell me if you think I am ugly. look at all my pictures please. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 36, he cheats on me ll the time especially with his ex wife, atleast 10 times. I don't think I am that ugly I know I am not very cute, but what do you think? he's not that cute. He can't say it's because i won't have sex with him, because he gets it everyday, yes i know it's gross but even during my time of month. we have sex sometimes up to 4 times a day one time it was 7.

2006-10-19 15:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by dan_and_jeannie 1 in Singles & Dating

i am having a birthday and i dont know what to get i have "everything i want" and i dont know what is knew int he technology aspect of gifts pls help.

2006-10-19 15:10:52 · 32 answers · asked by rosso 1 in Family

i can speak spanish but not a lot of english if you teach me............

2006-10-19 15:10:02 · 3 answers · asked by el hippie y su guitarra 1 in Weddings

I've always been a bit attracted to my friend, and when she told me she liked me, I knew that I should do SOMETHING...but I haven't. I've just stayed the same...but she seems to be pulling away. Whenever I try to do something (lying on her shoulder, etc.) she would always yell to stop and get annoyed. Is just playing hard to get, or does she not like me any more? Help me!

2006-10-19 15:08:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 15:08:15 · 18 answers · asked by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 in Singles & Dating

My friend just broke up with her man because both their family didn't approve them! she's white and her boyfriend is black. i mean they were such a lovely couple!
I have some girlfriends who are quite racist. They just wouldn't want to date black men and chinese!

How could some people be so racist?

My mom is Japanese and my dad is American. they work like "Magic!". They just recently celebrated their 26th anniversary!
I've never dated any Japanese even i'm half. I dated an italian before and we loved like crazy!
I've dated many Americans but we are just OK.

I mean it doesn't matter what colors of our skin, hair and eyes are.., we all searching for love!

Beauty comes in many shapes, sizes and colors, doesn't it?

2006-10-19 15:08:01 · 35 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

so im a first year freshman and living with a roomate in a small room. heres the trouble i barley even talk to my roommate we have nothing in common. she goes to bed at insane hours in the moring like 4, 6 and im an early bird i like going to bed early like 11 and 12 and then i wake up early since i have early classes but my roommate sets her alarm for 6 in the morning and i don't get up that early and the thing is she doesn't even wake up when her alarm goes off she keeps sleeping until i leave for class in the moring it is really making me depressed. I talked to my Ra but she has to talk to the head of the residents so what can i do untill then please help i feel like crying my self to sleep half the time or just not being in my room since shes always freaking there and i can't take it anymore

2006-10-19 15:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by curlycurls087 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Remember to tell the truth!

2006-10-19 15:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A black one inch tank top, black lingerie, black jeans, black belt, black flip flops, skull belt buckle?

2006-10-19 15:04:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never had one and im too shy too ask! im in the eighth grade

2006-10-19 15:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Mexico City, and I want to meet girls of this wonderful country. I wait for your answers. Thanks.

2006-10-19 15:03:29 · 7 answers · asked by I am the Walrus 2 in Friends

2006-10-19 15:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by marinka 1 in Singles & Dating

not even a polite chat on that subject.

2006-10-19 15:02:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the way a man looks at you?the way we talk?what? i know some might have diffrent things.i personaly look at girls deep into their eyes,i also have a deep voice(with a little accent).

2006-10-19 15:01:26 · 21 answers · asked by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 in Singles & Dating

Just when I think it can't get worse... it does. I know I sound like the typical highschool person, but please try to empathize. My grades have been dropping, slightly, but not horribly, which I fear they will. I am not so socially capable and I often don't know the right things to say. When I thought I could take comfort in my crush, he asks out another girl, that's blonde with large eyes. Plus, I go to a very, very small school (about 40 people a grade) and there's no way that I can escape all this fear and agony. Thankfully she said no to him, but it sucks to know that a guy I've liked for two years likes a girl he's known for three months. I've never felt so overwhelmed with all this trouble and I can't find any way to comfort myself, so I cut my arm. Trust me, I don't want attention, and I'm not mentally unstable, I only want genuine advice, please.

2006-10-19 15:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by Hyperbolic Logic 2 in Friends

What does it mean when he sees you in the halls and nods, nods crazily. And when other times he doesnt he looks at you and looks away? but he never ever says a word to you?

2006-10-19 14:59:49 · 16 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in Mexico City and I am searching for a girls that want to be my friends... do you want to be my friend? I wait your answers.

2006-10-19 14:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by I am the Walrus 2 in Friends

2006-10-19 14:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by hottie-in-jr-high 1 in Other - Family & Relationships