i never had one and im too shy too ask! im in the eighth grade
2006-10-19 15:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, since I'm a boy, it may sound wierd, but oh well. This is what I've got to say. Just be yourself. They should like you because of who you truly are, not by just some disguise personality. And relax, if you think you really like them, just tell them. It doesn't hurt just to say I like you, right? Although you might have a 1 day humiliation, IF he says no. And see if he really likes you. Thats all I've got to say. Just follow your heart. And if you think you need to wait, wait.
2006-10-19 15:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by abominationzxd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask this question, than you are not ready to have boyfriends. And since you are only in the 8th grade. you definitely don't need one. You have plenty of time for that stuff when you get older. You need to be focused on your grades so you can be somebody important when you grow up. And you should tell all your little fast girlfriends the same thing. Unless you all want to become statistics :teen pregnancy, std's ,failures in life, H.S. drop outs. The list goes on and on. Please think about this. This is how it starts. You can make a difference if you choose a different path.
2006-10-19 22:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nepolean Dynamite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with guys now. Concentrate on school and it will happen when it happens. Hey I think I am in the same grade as you...I always concentrated on school and still do and I am also too shy to ask so amazingly a guy, that I liked for a while, asked me. I still never let guys get in the way of school...Just wait...it will happen when it happens.
2006-10-19 22:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Spastic girl! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eighth grade.....you will be going to High School next year.
You will not have to ask.......for a boyfriend......
There is so many young men and women there......
Just pay attention to your looks and clothes and say"HI" to everyone......I was so shy, I understand.......even though I dressed properly, talked.......when the words would come out.
Not to worry.....I was that way, until I met a Captain in the Navy,
where I worked...he helped me, by saying "Just be yourself"
We were married, and have children and grandchildren.....
Not to worry...it will happen...if you worry, you will take away from yourself...just pretend, like you are writing here....No problem...
Love youself first.......Do not worry......You are a wonderful person!!
2006-10-19 22:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush your teeth daily, bath, dress conservative, smile a lot and take a cold shower when you have this urge to wanting a serious relationship. You are to young to confine your feelings. At your age is should be fun with all your acquaintances and involve yourself in family activities.
Your time under the sun will come, for God's rays of sunshine will be looking over you in the future.
Grandpa
2006-10-19 22:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th Grade- I know how you feel. When I was your age I felt the same way. I'm 19 going on 20 now. Just have crushes that u leave notes for and punch in the arm for now. When you look back on it it'll be humorous and fun. You'll be glad u didn't jump into anything.
2006-10-19 22:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by spacebttrfly23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young to be this worked up over it! relax and enjoy being young. sometimes things are better if you let them happen on your own. keep an open mind and heart and ALWAYS USE YOUR BRAIN. dont let yourself become a teenage single mom before you have your life figured out. your only young once so make the most of it and work on a plan for your future.
PEACE and good luck!
Vin
2006-10-19 22:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, i remember thinking this in 8th grade.. and i remember all my friends dealing with the heartbreak and such. Personally, i think its better to wait until you (and of course those boys) to mature... Even in High School they aren't mature. But anyway, guys are attracted to girls who are easy to talk to and who are definitely themselves... the right boy will come along someday :)
I finally met a great guy my senior year in high school and we're still together 2 years and 6 months later... be patient... He'll come. :)
2006-10-19 22:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Denise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i was in eight grade i had a boyfriend it wasn't fun, you start getting to in to them and then you don't concentrate on nothing Else,don't rush into things let a guy talk to you first and if you like him OK but don't go out with a guy just to go out with them just because you never had a boyfriend (don't do it to yourself)you have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-10-19 22:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by `~*sheila *~` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time for guys to screw up your life and damage you psychologically...for now I would just concentrate on doing well in school and having good friends, the boys can wait...
2006-10-19 22:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋