Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

There is a part time cop that works at the police department where I dispatch. He is always stopping by on his off days when I work just to say hi. He always asks me if I need anything and is very sweet. All the guys say he likes me and I should ask him out. I really wont to but im afraid he will say no. How do I approach this situation?

2006-10-19 16:06:25 · 3 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 16:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by lt5890 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas as to what games to play at a 70th birthday party??? There will be about 50 people. Any good ideas would be greatly appreciated. THANKS in advance.

2006-10-19 16:06:10 · 4 answers · asked by mrpennstate@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

2006-10-19 16:05:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-wife has been either calling me or emailing every single day for the last 2-weeks (we were divorced in January 2006). She told me that her boyfriend had lied to her about his marital status: he was still with his wife. She was very upset when she called to tell me this and she stated that she is no longer seeing him although they talk on the phone periodically. She left me for him and she was seeing him while I was still living with her in our house (now her house).

She lacks all the qualities that a man should want in a woman: she is dishonest, disloyal, untrustworthy, a taker and not flexible. In addition to admits to having low self esteem and she exercises poor judgement! We were together for 14 years. Despite all the objective information that tells me that she is not worth having a relationship with, in the back of my mind I am entertaining giving her another chance because it is clear that is what she wants. Am I crazy? Should I give her a chance?

2006-10-19 16:04:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it real love or is it a crush?i dont know,what do you call it?

2006-10-19 16:03:20 · 14 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We've plan to get marry next month. We've already bought the rings, but he sold it to paid his motorcycle. But he promise me to buy me another one this month. For me it's not only about the rings, it's about feelings!!!

2006-10-19 16:01:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have this friend who is married to a no good dog. He is in and out of jail, he lies to her, steals from her,, won't work and worst of all while she is at work he brings his pregnant mistress to her house. Some other friends and I thought the best thing to do was stay out of it and maybe she will learn for herself but this has been going on for a year and a half now and I don't see it getting any better. She feels that just because they have kids together that she should try and make the marriage work but how much is too much. They have a son together.I don't know what else this dog needs to do to make her realize that she needs to leave him. She is a good hearted person that will do anything to keep her family together and she really don't deserve this. I want to say something but my friends know that I will not sugar coat it and they are telling me not to. So I want to hear from wives with kids on this one

2006-10-19 16:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Curious One 1 in Friends

so i like my friends brother he's 19, im 17 and im just wondering what if i just kissed him? i wonder what he'd do.... any guys have any answers what you'd do if ur sisters best friend kissed you?? how would you respond?

and if you did like her before she kissed you, what would you do to kind of show it to her with out making it too obvious?

FYI my best friend is fine with this whole situation, but i dont want to go out with him. i just want to know what he thinks of me, and what you think he might do if i kiss him?

2006-10-19 16:01:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im hooking up with this girl i like this weekend. we are just getting to know each other. what should we do to break the ice to get to know each other.

2006-10-19 16:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

a few months ago this guy i relly liked moved and i thought i had moved on but latly ive been having odd dreams about him and im reading a book and there r 2 characters who like each other and i keep picturing them as me and him and i write songs about him how do i get him out of my head

2006-10-19 15:59:20 · 11 answers · asked by twilight 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my b/f for 8 months and my parents think he has no ambition and is totally wrong for me. They wont even give him a chance. I've grown up respecting their opinion but this time they are wrong. What do you say when they dis him for having no education but neither do they? Plus they keep pushing me to fix things with my ex, who they consider a son. My b/f actually saw a pic of my ex in my folks house and when I asked them to take it down they said no. I dont want to let anyone down but this sucks!!

2006-10-19 15:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Mollie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I talked about last time a guy that wouldn't meet me. Well now I haven't talk to him since last friday. I haven't done anything wrong that I know of. I called him 3 times last sunday and by the 3rd call his phone was off. I haven't tryed to call since. I don't know if i should or not. What do you all think I should do?

2006-10-19 15:59:05 · 12 answers · asked by AA 2 in Friends

i know i got the hormones cuz im around that age but am i really to young to do it. no my stuff aint done growin but i can do it and everything. i want to, cuz i kno its goood.

2006-10-19 15:58:55 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this question is asked a lot but is there a web site that I can view actual color swatches to find my colors?

2006-10-19 15:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Weddings

my friend told me that the girl I met the other day was going to send me an e-mail(my friend and her are classmates). but it s been a week and I havent met her or heard anything from her.
what was it suppose to mean??

2006-10-19 15:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Friends

I have a boyfriend. We've been together for almost 4 years. We have plan to get marry in the end of this year, but I don't think we're ready because we're still young (he's 20 and I'm 19) and he is jobless. So what should I do?

2006-10-19 15:55:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister told me a while ago that her friend liked me.I think he's cute,and I was shocked that he liked me.He's two years older than me.I'm fifteen.My sister tells me all these things that he says and does.He's looked at me before.One time she told me that he was gonne come up and kiss me,but the teacher was near me,so he didn't.But I started thinking back,and I remembered that the teachers were having a meeting at that time.We were told to get our books from our locker.There was no teacher near me what-so-ever at that time.But,he always looks at me.And my mom even told me that she saw him straining his neck to look at me the other day.My mom's gonna ask my sister if she's lying,cause I've been having boy troubles this year.I know,though,that even when my mom asks my sister if she's lying,my sister will say she's not.I'm confused and don't know what to think.

2006-10-19 15:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Singles & Dating

If someone says you look like someone and then says well not really look like but favors them. What exactly does this mean then? And if the persons good looking is this a compliment?

2006-10-19 15:54:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I get is the cold shoulder and I'm sure she's talking to everyone about it (but me!) behind my back. I'm not even really too sure what I may have done. I never went out of my way to make her angery or anything.

2006-10-19 15:54:24 · 3 answers · asked by emmyfair 3 in Family

ZAchery pArKer i think he is in launsteson tasmania can yo help me??

2006-10-19 15:53:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

All this time I just thought it was something fun to call my friends.

2006-10-19 15:52:44 · 11 answers · asked by marcia_mahoya 3 in Singles & Dating

So how can they claim I was encouraging "illegal" drug use by talking about smoking it in MY OWN HOME, which is completely LEGAL under ALASKAN STATE LAW?

2006-10-19 15:52:29 · 17 answers · asked by Another Chubby Feminist 1 in Family

2006-10-19 15:51:23 · 23 answers · asked by Joel R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a taurus man for numerous years. It seems like that this is far as it is going to go. I want a serious relationship with him but he confuses me so much. He says that he loves me but he has other female friends also. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-19 15:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by deljuana1 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know, realistically, can a lond distance realtionship work?

2006-10-19 15:50:58 · 20 answers · asked by tweety16788 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been asking just some friends and get all sorts of answers... I'd just like to know a good average... not really counting the virgins till marriage croud.

2006-10-19 15:50:17 · 18 answers · asked by *Erica* 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew they weren't for me when (these were all different guys I had met) I saw his avacado green kitchen appliances, he showed me his insulin pump( had a family member with diabetes and don't want to have to deal with that again), talked about nothing but sports, didn't buy me even a coffee, said he wanted to take my daughter out on her first date (too weird), one guy gave me a scented card from macys as a gift (wow), and another one pulled out a cigarette when he said he didn't smoke

2006-10-19 15:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

A girl who I have a crush on is possibly moving away next year. Now, the weird thing is, the same thing happened last year.

I had asked the first girl I had a crush on to dance with me, and she shut me down. So I was sad. Two years later, I found out she was moving. I was too chicken to ask the first girl that I still had a crush on, for a dance, before she left, and she left, leaving me to regret not asking her.
Now, the problem comes up one more time.

Then, there's the problem of me looking... nerdy. So I'm extra scared if I'll get turned down or not. But I'm not sure if I'll take it so hard this time. What do I do?

2006-10-19 15:48:59 · 5 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

you don't want to be the kind of wife who is always telling her husband what to do? when it comes to our kids and he know's that it shouldn't be the way it is? or whenever you try to have a conversation with him and all he can say is "i don't know"? To all you men that want to get on my ****, shut the f*** up, because i don't want to hear, you guys act like you don't want any woman to tell you what to do or how to do it, well then start acting like it! I am so sick of naive people who aren't married, or are married and there husbands get away with acting like a complete moron, because a woman should "set a good example", what the F ever, because you where a man before you hooked up with that woman, so stop acting like you need a friggin mom. I'm not falling for that anymore.

2006-10-19 15:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce