is it real love or is it a crush?i dont know,what do you call it?
2006-10-19 16:03:20 · 14 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES, I have...I don't think it's real love, I think it's beyond "crush"; I think it's called "Lust".
2006-10-19 16:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Joya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Love does not require two people to be together for it to exist. I've been in love for 10 years now, and we were only together for about one of those years. We still talk from time to time, but it's been over for 5 years now, and I know I will never have them again, but I'm still in love none the less.
A crush is mostly just physical attraction, with no deep feelings attached to it.
If the person you love does not feel the same about you, then it's called unrequited love.
2006-10-19 23:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have been in love with someone i couldn't have! Due to me wanting that person i messed up a relationship that i was already in! Only you can answer wherther or not it is love or a crush. Just because you can't have them at this particular time doesn't mean that your heart is tellin u something different! I call this situation Forbidden Fruit! And i when i have forbidden fruit please believe i always get a taste. Don't let this lust go on with out getting something out of it! Let the love that you have actually benefit u! DON"T LET IT GO TO WASTE!
2006-10-19 23:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by MINNIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why this happens ..but yes I have. I call it a broken heart and if you are not careful it lets the guy have the ability to play you. After a certain time it can't be love it becomes an obsession that you need to get over before it ruins you.
~Good Luck~
2006-10-19 23:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know what you mean, I am totally IN LOVE, with this guy, but we live 3 states apart, and there is 13 year age difference, and I know that I will never get him, but this love obsession has been going on for 3 years so I know it's love.
2006-10-19 23:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by outdoor_girl93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love, no two ways about it. a crush lasts about 2 weeks ,love a lot longer. still in love?
2006-10-20 01:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by laurarocha@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush. I, being in that situation more than once, have realised that if someone you actaully can't get, he's way too much of a jerk for it to be that way to be love. It's jsut a crush.
2006-10-19 23:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by thumber124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love ,when your world is just not whole when your not around that person.Acrush is when your around that person and thats all you do is stair at them,so what I'msaying is if you want that person go for it,before someone else gets him.
2006-10-19 23:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was head over heels about a guy who didn't know I existed (at least nothing I ever did seemed to get his attention). He's just a bittersweet memory now.
HHMMMM.....I wonder whatever happened to him?
2006-10-19 23:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Empress ~of~Roam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you cant have him, why the hell are you even going through the drama, get a man that you know you can have and stop the game playing
2006-10-19 23:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋