My husband KNOWS I am against smoking. I've lost 13 family members to lung cancer and/or emphysema. My parents are heavy smokers and it scares me. The problem is, I think my husband is smoking at work and lying to me about it. Just today, he gave me a kiss, and his lips and beard smelled strongly of smoke. He said it was because everyone else at work was stressed and smoking a lot. I'm not an idiot, I know the smell of smoke would not just be attracted mostly to his lips. I've also smelled it on his hand or sleeve cuff. If I bring it up, he makes excuses, like he was just holding a cigarette for a friend. Hes normally very upfront with me, but I fear that hes afraid to be honest with me on this subject. It makes me feel like hes taking me for a fool, thinking he can hide it from me. He works in adult foster care home, and all the other staff smoke in the garage. It wouldnt surprise me if the temptation is too much. I'm already worried enough about his weight, I dont need
2006-10-19
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