I've liked this guy for 6 months and I know it's never going to go anywhere. We work in different departments. The thing is I think he has always maybe had a hint that I might like him. But he would back off when I would try to get close. He used to flirt with me and then back off if I reacted to him. Now it seems he's just trying to be friends with me like he is with other girls that he has no interest in otherwise. I want to be his friend, but it's hard in a way. Having these feeling for him. It would just be a semi friend because I only see him for a couple of minutes everyday. What's your advice, even though I have to see him looking at this one really cute girl I know he must like. Since I know he'll never like me in that way. Should I just kidd with him when he kids with me. And sometimes he'll now touch me on the shoulder like he does the other girls he doesn't like but they don't like him. He'll pat me on the back. Do you see why this could be hard for me?
2006-10-19 16:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's hard when your crush doesn't seem interested in you, looks at other girls, and you have to see him every day!
I would just try your hardest to treat him like a friend. Do kid with him when he kids with you. Touch him on the shoulder too or lean in a little when he pats you on the back.
Some guys really just get off on knowing girls like them, which may be why he flirted but then backed off when you tried to get close. A lot of them like to be the ones to chase, too, so he may feel that you don't let him do that. And it's possible he may like you, but be shy. Even very outgoing people such as myself believe they would die if rejected by someone for a date!
Anyway, I would just follow his lead on this. Eventually (I promise) you'll find someone else who returns your interest!
2006-10-19 16:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you finally need to GET OVER HIM! You have written so many questions about him and it's obviously driving you crazy wondering about him. You should act nice to him, as you would any other co-worker and not worry about how he acts to you and others. You seem to spend too much time at work worrying about what others think about you.
2006-10-20 20:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by michele36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - wat so hard .just kid wit him n c how far it goes n if he pats u - u 2 can give him a pat .
2006-10-19 23:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋