He like to give me money or buy gifts for me. He know Im married he's engaged right now. Does he like me? He hasnt came on to me so Im confused
2006-10-19 16:11:21 · 16 answers · asked by bre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What the hell is wrong with you are you hard up this guy is engaged and you are married and you take his money you are stupid and he has no interest in you because you are stupid ,,sureilll
2006-10-19 16:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. I would stay away. If he had any respect for women he would not be engaged and giving gifts to other women.
If your husband is better than this, I would give him a big a hug and fall back in Love with him. Show the other guy how strong your relationship is with your husband. Marriage is work.
2006-10-19 16:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy friends, don't really mix well with marriage. Sorry to say it, but you just have to reverse it. If your husband had a "girl" friend who like to give him gifts, how would you feel. It doesnt even matter what the guy in question has in mind, its how it makes your husband feel. So you need to politely decline any gifts and only interact with this other man, with your husband present.
He's probably a guy who has a girl, but wants to keep you in the margin, just in case. DO NOT be fooled. All you ever have to do is say to yourself " How would I feel if my husband was doing this"? and if you cant have a clear conscience, then don't do it.
2006-10-19 16:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Coco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How strong is your friendship with this man? If he is giving you gifts and money is it because you need them? Or is he trying to win your favor?
It sounds like a dangerous situation to me.
I would suggest asking him nicely to stop giving you gifts. It can only lead to trouble.
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2006-10-19 16:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to sound very forward but u need to stop all contact w/ him. and do not except gifts from him b/c he will want something in return. it is simple do unto others as u would want them to do unto u, would u want ur husband to do the same thing u dabbing in? marriage in america are less and less likely these days b/c people are doing the same thing u are doing. i am just being real do not take it personally but u need to hear the truth. who cares if he likes u or not, stop excepting his gifts b/c his gestures will soon interfere w/ ur marriage. best of wishes!
2006-10-19 16:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is going to fork out money and gifts without wanting something in return. He is trying to butter you up in order to get his. You might want to ask what his intentions are.
2006-10-19 17:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares! Focus on YOUR marriage and get rid of this other guy. Having a friendship with another man when you are married is just not ok!
2006-10-19 16:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in with the rest of the group--it sounds like trouble. Stop now before your life is a total mess.
2006-10-19 16:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by little1missy1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a hooker? Cause there's no other reason for a married woman to accept those kinds of things from a guy...
2006-10-19 16:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by venusiaint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're uncomfortable with it. If that's the case you need to tell him that what he's doing is not a good idea....
2006-10-19 16:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋