She tells everything and cannot keep a secret. She use to be cool but now I can't trust her anymore. What should I do?
2006-10-19 16:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by linyah w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get a new friend
2006-10-19 16:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by mymichele_24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and get her to see what her telling of private talks can do set up a way in which she can watch the pain she cause,or explain to her,it hurts,if this don`t work i am afraid she is going to learn the hard way and you won`t be there to pick up the pieces,sad part id good friends are hard to find,and true ones come by very seldom,in ones lifetime most can count on there one hand true friends the ones that were there no matter what
2006-10-19 16:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should tell her that she needs to keep some things to her self, it a kind way. Tell her that u cant trust her with ur secrets untill she can prove she is responsible enough to keep her mouth shut about certain things.
2006-10-19 16:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt tell her anything i didnt want anyone else to know for one thing. Honesty is the best way to deal with this friend. Tell her you dont appreciate not being able to trust her like a true friend and that you are going to have to end your friendship if she cant start being a true friend. If she gets mad oh well she wasnt a friend to begin with so therefor its really no loss.
2006-10-19 16:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by naomihank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she broke your trust and that it will take alot for you to be able to confide in her. You can remain friends but let her know that the trust between the two of you is not there anymore. Okay Linyah
2006-10-19 16:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell a secret to her anymore and keep a distance
2006-10-19 16:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Theresia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell here secrets anymore.... try telling her some made-up secret that doesn't really ruin your "image" to other people and make her promise not to tell. if she spreads it round, well, you can't trust her anymore...
or maybe she's trying to get you back at what you did to her [no idea if yes/no]..
well, just talk to her slowly... [not like SLLLOOOOOOWWWLLLLLYYYYYYYYYEEEEEE] it's like you're kinda bringing in the topic slowly, instead of talking about it straight away..
2006-10-19 17:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by oddzilla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm and tell her the truth without hurting her feelings. Try something like "you know you're my best friend, but could you please not talk that much? I mean talking is fine but not that much okey?"
(Try a soft voice)
Don't tell her secrets then. Just tell her you don't have any if she asks:-)
2006-10-19 16:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by SlayerFoLife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Waterworld.
The mariner tells the little girl Enolla to listen to the world...she says she doesn't hear anything. And he says, "That's because you're too loud."
Or you could just tell your friend to shut her yap.
2006-10-19 16:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by julygirl75038 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her anymore secrets.Maybe then she well notice that she has a big mouth.Or maybe she's not as cool as you thought
2006-10-19 16:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by southern girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duct tape works nicely.
2006-10-19 16:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋