so im a first year freshman and living with a roomate in a small room. heres the trouble i barley even talk to my roommate we have nothing in common. she goes to bed at insane hours in the moring like 4, 6 and im an early bird i like going to bed early like 11 and 12 and then i wake up early since i have early classes but my roommate sets her alarm for 6 in the morning and i don't get up that early and the thing is she doesn't even wake up when her alarm goes off she keeps sleeping until i leave for class in the moring it is really making me depressed. I talked to my Ra but she has to talk to the head of the residents so what can i do untill then please help i feel like crying my self to sleep half the time or just not being in my room since shes always freaking there and i can't take it anymore
2006-10-19 15:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by curlycurls087 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i tried hard making converstations with my roommate asking her to do stuff with me but nothing i usally one get a sentence out of her and thats it
2006-10-19 15:18:03 · update #1
so far all the suggestions below suck nothing is working I TRIED TALKING TO HER she just doesn't communicate back. the first week of school we discussed all the stuff you are suggestion and she still doesn't compromise
2006-10-19 15:26:02 · update #2
Your becoming an young adult you have to learn how to communicate with people upfront. You should be able to sit down like young ladies/men and work out a schedule for the living issues with the needs and respect for both parties. If all else fail try to get relocated or a swap.
2006-10-19 15:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are having a hard time, sleep deprivation and frustration. Don't be afraid to talk to her about this. Say you are having a hard time with the differences in your schedules and want to discuss some compremises. She probably has some issues too. Put it all out there and try to come to an agreement that you both can live with.
2006-10-19 22:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your roommate.
Talk to your RA again, maybe you can crash on her floor.
Go talk to the residence hall people yourself.
Find a friend to crash with.
And if all else fails, when her alarm goes off, turn it off. Unplug it, whatever you need to do to get enough sleep.
2006-10-19 22:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Drolefille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is grow some balls. tell her that she is driving you insane with her hours and try to work something out. if she refuses to comprimise , then just do things the way you want them done and to hell with her, she doesn't seem to care what bothers you so why should you care what bothers her., Or you could move out and get a different roommate.
2006-10-20 03:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm....
This is a hard one.
Maybe you should just talk to yur roomate and make friends.
Maybe start with saying "hey roomy! i need to talk to you"
2006-10-19 22:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her without hurting her feelings, tell the truth, or just find out a way to find your new place
2006-10-19 22:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋