Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

So there are these two guys and well they both like me like alot but they are best friends along with their other really good friend who likes me too what do I do
I dont want to hurt their feeling but I dont really like either of them except for as just friends and they are both all over me...
what to do what to do

2006-10-19 14:29:35 · 2 answers · asked by virginiasanders 1 in Friends

Started a FWB r w/ my neighbor. Hot 4 1 another over a year, finally happened. Communication is sporatic, I am attached 2 some1 else already but seem 2 b the one contacting my neighbor more. I don't understand his silence at times, dont' know if he wants me contacting him. He works lots of hours and other stressors in life right now that occupy his mind.
Is there a thing as playing hard to get in these relationships? I am sure he is fond of me as a person... he is just busy right now and I think I got emotional on him once last week which was a turn off I am sure.
What do u think?

2006-10-19 14:29:30 · 3 answers · asked by T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1.black or white?
2. girly or gothic?(i am not agenst any body but i prepher goth)
3.dog or cat?
4.amy lee or avril lavigne?
5.ice cream or popsicle?

2006-10-19 14:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

we were each others first in everything i love him terribly...but the lack of experiance, if you will, its draving me crazy. i wish he had more sexual experiance, actually in every department. if i tell him what i want he'll do it because i told him so and that doesnot turn me on and he'll forget after awhile. we've been together for 8 years now, and he doenst drive me crazy (in a sexual way) as he used to. what can we do?

2006-10-19 14:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I have been good friends since seventh grade...and recently after most of our friends have gone to the career center, we've grown closer. I've been single so I could have some time to think about what I want, and I think I'm starting to like him...I dont know if I want to tell him, and risk our friendship over it (I know if he doesnt feel the same way things will be awkward between us and I dont want that) or if I should just tell him...

2006-10-19 14:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I married the first time at 18 and the marriage lasted almost2years. That was me that wanted out. The second time I was 21, that one was also almost 2 years. But he cheated and ended the marriage. The 3rd time I was 28, I'm still married for going on 10 1/2 years. He says he's not happy, but when the kids and I left to moved back home without him. He decided to come back too 2 weeks later. He quit his job and came home to us. Is that a man that isn't happy and don't want to be with me or what? Before I left I asked him if we had to rush into a divorce, he said no. Most of the time it seems like we are trying to make things better, sometimes no. Expecailly when he talks to 1 of his sister it seems like he changes. He almost treats her like she is his wife more than me. He has to call her almost everyday(she lives in a different state). He seems to mop around if he don't talk to her for awhile or she seems not to answer his calls.

2006-10-19 14:26:42 · 16 answers · asked by desprite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking of saying he's dead. Just to shut them up. People at work and all over pry way to much and I don't like saying 'IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS'. How would you handle this?

2006-10-19 14:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 14:26:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We all have our one person whom we are attracted to but dont admit it. Maybe they are less then perfect with an amazing attitude?

What about a over- wieght person. Could your flame of love for the large force you in silence or would you shout the love from the roof tops?

2006-10-19 14:25:58 · 35 answers · asked by bbw_kitten_pow 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with a woman for the past 8 years......the past 8 months we became closser but never crossed the line into relationship just friends . Then one day I started getting feelings for he that I have suppressed and she told me that she had them aswell. We started dating and I had never been happier. we never slept together but kissed and cuddled. She then all of a sudden said that we were only friends and never any thing more even though she had told me that she had deep feelings for me and that the chemistry between us was very powerfull (which it was) I am left heart broken have told her this but she hasnt responded to it....I recently met someone else on the rebound and she said that she was upset that I didnt tell her and that she cant trust me anymore....Im just lost

2006-10-19 14:25:33 · 4 answers · asked by RICHARD D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by hottie-in-jr-high 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

K my bestfriend Morgan is dating this horrible guy named Kurt.
9 months ago he tried to get with me but I knew his reputation.
And about a year ago he dated out friend beckie, and cheated on her ofcourse. Anyways Kurt and Beckie stayed friends, and beckie knows how he is. Morgan and Kurt met 4 days ago, and are now dating (Shes stupid and starts dating a guy the DAY she meets him) Anyways.. I can't even stand to talk to her because she refuses to listen to me and beckie because "hes so funny".. and says that she knows him even though they met 4 DAYS AGO

Anyways, this is runing mine and hers friendship because, i refuse to hang out with him, and i can't stand to talk to someone who is so stupid and won't listen. What should I do?

2006-10-19 14:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by Katrina G 3 in Friends

My boyfriend's baby momma is crazy. She calls my phone all the time, she even text messages me with stuff saying my boyfriend is cheating. Recently, she left a message saying she wanted to fight me. I am scared and don't know what to do since I have never been in a fight. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to call the police on her, but he told me no because he didn't want his daughter to be without her mom. I even thought about leaving him, but the scary thing is that I think she will still try something. Any advice?

2006-10-19 14:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know the parent that gets visitation with the child every other weekend is limited with thier time but, can they keep the child from
going to thier scheduled activities/ sports , etc.? Are there any legal ramifacations? Does the child have rights? Can the other parent do anything about it( such in a court of law)?

2006-10-19 14:23:59 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if I'm not interested in them. without anyone's feelings getting hurt.

2006-10-19 14:23:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please check the pics in my 360 page. Should I keep the beard or does it need to go? And most importantly, do you like what you see?

2006-10-19 14:23:47 · 15 answers · asked by thunderstorm 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been split up with my bf for about 7 months after a 4 yr
relationship. He's on a dating site, I see he's promising marriage to
a woman he's never met, only thru emails. Wedding in a month. I'm on
the same dating site, he's been trying to contact me, I've deleted
him, yesterday he caught me off guard, writing apoligizing for the
hurt he's caused me.He was a liar and a cheater.He broke my very
soul.I forgave him, said have a nice life. Last night he writes that
he wants to take me out & he wants to MARRY me...WTF??? I'm so
confused. I know about hoovering and sucking you bak in...well, I'm
in the middle of a vacuum right now & I'm so messed up. I want to
believe him, he told me that he had no one else, but shes on his
profile saying they are getting married in a month. HE HASN'T EVEN
MET HER. He always did this when we were together~always had
internet women he was promising to marry and I was engaged to him at
the time.
I grew up in a good family, never knew these things or people
existed. How naive of me. Now he wants to take me out tomorrow. I'm
afraid because I havent seen him in so long, I don't remember his
face , his voice &that helps.But I can't compete with these women
that he says he wants to marry but never does. He always called it
a 'game'. and that he never meant it. He has sent a few women to
mental hospitals. One girl I talked to had even bought a wedding
dress and he called her on his way [another state] and said he had a
bad car accident. NOT TRUE! He was going to shack up with another
woman. Help me understand

2006-10-19 14:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by Debbie Ratliff 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by l1ttlekat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should you stay with the one you are with or stop leading him on. What is fair in this situation?

2006-10-19 14:23:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok he put (donde sta mi burro!? {B.W.A}, what the fck is that supposed to mean B.W.A???

2006-10-19 14:21:44 · 3 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

Ok so my bf and i have been off and on for 5 years. we recently got back together like 2 months ago. his brother had a baby (5 months ago) and tonight they threw a special shower for the baby. i didnt even know about it until i asked my bf where he was going tonight. i'm so pissed that i wasnt invited. i feel like he doesnt care about me enough for me to be apart of the shower. how do i handle this? how mad should i be? i jus feel like crap right now!

2006-10-19 14:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jen W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:21:26 · 15 answers · asked by larissa c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I liked this guys for 3 year on and off because he had previous relationship with other girls that turned me off, but then i relized i really liked Him, But I never told him untill last year and found out that he liked me as well. (and I only think he liked me because he knew that I liked him) Anyway, ok sounds good right? Well not really because I'm trying to move on from him because he is very inmature and does not respect me. And i dont want to get hurt from Him so I dont know how to tell him becuase I dont want to him to be mad at me becuase I still want to be his friend .. what should I do??

2006-10-19 14:21:06 · 1 answers · asked by Bekah 2 in Singles & Dating

my heart tells me that he is the one for me, but his actions tell me something else, this guy don't call me and shows very little signs that he cares. but my heart tells me that he is the one for me.

2006-10-19 14:20:30 · 5 answers · asked by coco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.....is that any clearer?!

2006-10-19 14:20:12 · 28 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to speak to girls i like but there is always something to pull me off many girls speak to me but i tend to avoid them within few days pls help!

2006-10-19 14:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a guy for about 3 mos. We had issues over me being jealous with internet chatting. And the issue of trust. The realtionship started strong, but about a month later he realized he didn't want a serious commitment being recently divorced and all. After my trip to Cali we revisted the "label", close friends rather than bf/gf and tried to work through it. He got really burned from his ex wife and well I was understanding of his situation emotionally. Over the past week he was more attentive, more affectionate but a situation changed everything within a few days.
Last week I saw my ex bf (was in Iraq) on Tues..he stayed two nights (visiting my sons), (a 3 yr relationship before he deployed). My BD was Thur and the guy I was dating told me he loved me. Saturday my ex and I went gambling, I missed the bus and didn't come home til the next day...he decided to stay out all nite meeting a girl on Sun and by Mon he moved out....what should I think if he says he needs time?

2006-10-19 14:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by issiez 2 in Singles & Dating

last weekend i was home for a couple of days and went to the bar to do some drinking... well i ended up meeting this girl and we started talking and we decided to dance... well i put my hands on her back and started to dance and all of a sudden the bartender which i know just broke up w/ her boyfriend comes storming back and broke us up... she was like keep your hands off her her and all that b.s. and she said to her friend we need to talk i mena i know the bartender like me for me but could it be for something more or am i reading into things? Also i found out that the grl i was dancing w/ lives w/ the bartender...

2006-10-19 14:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by justaguy 1 in Singles & Dating

What do i do if i like one of my best guy friends im just in m. school so maybe it would be ok if some kids answer.

2006-10-19 14:19:00 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsyyy(: 3 in Other - Family & Relationships