Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

2006-10-19 14:06:46 · 2 answers · asked by cheetah_ladyhuntress 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for 2 years and my husband looks at porn (online porn) 4 to 6 times per week, sometimes for hours at a time--and always late at night when I'm sleeping. I'm an attractive woman in my late 20's who takes good care of myself--body and appearance. My husband says I am one of the most attractive women he's ever seen and we have a decent sex life (2 to 3 x's per week on average), but he STILL looks at porn--sometimes even after we have had sex. Why do men do this? Is it wrong of me to be unhappy about him looking at porn so much?

2006-10-19 14:06:41 · 24 answers · asked by missapparition 4 in Marriage & Divorce

should it be a catagory

2006-10-19 14:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by lancashiretasty 5 in Family

me and my bf we are young im 20 and hes 18, but we have been together for 2 and a half yrs, for the first 2 yrs it was wonderful, couldn't been better, then he started workin as a cook, riding home with a guy to work and from work , we dont live together but i stay at his house alot , which is him his mom and his little brother, well since he started workin like 4months ago he seems so diff, he dont call anymore dont give me attention anymore, hes nice but when we have a fite, he will say m ean things to me he wont hit me and he never has, and he swears hes not cheatin or likin anyone else, i just wonder if maybe if i stay home for a while and not call him or go to his house, if he will straiten up and start actin the way he used to, wil this work or if u have any other way then please tel lme?

2006-10-19 14:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife had an affair 1 year ago while I was out of town for 4 months. We reconciled, and moved out of state. She had a family emergency, and went to help her family. Since she has been there she has talked on the phone with him numerous times, and admited to seeing him. She did not tell me any of this, until I confronted her about the phone bill. She swears nothing is going on, but why would she even need to talk to him. She says she didn't want to hurt me...then why talk to him at all? thought things were good with us, and we have even been trying to have our first child. Should I trust her? Should I leave her?

2006-10-19 14:05:57 · 26 answers · asked by eyetie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Plese help me

2006-10-19 14:05:21 · 10 answers · asked by makeveli1 2 in Singles & Dating

when i did all my friends were proud! but he liked one of my friends. should i get back at him by dating hiz bff.or shold i tell my friend how i feel

2006-10-19 14:05:03 · 16 answers · asked by muzlimah 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who always stares at me, there`s nothing on my face and like i`m starting to think he likes me. We always have those eye contact moments.. so whachu think is up with him?

2006-10-19 14:04:45 · 4 answers · asked by KC O 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-19 14:04:14 · 17 answers · asked by Rollin' VIp 2 in Friends

i have a friend who is depressed. we are both 15 year old and are high school sophmores. she is depressed because a guy she had a crush on is going out with her best friend. this is not a simple crush because she tells me she really loves him and the two are very good friends. she started cutting herself and starving her self (ive also been trying to make her stop this habit)after she saw the couple's picture on myspace. i dont what to say to her exactly because the guy's gf is also one of my best friends. she cries a lot and when i see her she looks happy but i know shes suffering because when we have heart to heart talks shes crying internally. what advice should i give.

2006-10-19 14:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Whats the best?

2006-10-19 14:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't tell whether or not he is into my personality or if he is just into my body!

2006-10-19 14:03:00 · 2 answers · asked by corky 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems like every time after school is out one of my friends gets this real bad oder of must like she needs deodrant but she in a very sentative person and wears her feeling on her shoulder and gets afended very fast how do i tell her with out hurting her feelings.people are starting to talk and i can't keep defending her i try to drop hints like i keep my deodrant in my purse just in case but it does not seem like she gets it .help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-19 14:02:27 · 13 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 14:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by lil_momma_305 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy that i like and he likes me 2 but theres a difference he's 19 and i'm 15 but the weird thing about it is that me and him be having these connections like we say the same thing or do the same thing without eveing knowing we did it until like 5 seconds later we have a real great relationship with eachother but he said i was 2 young so he said that he would wait till i'm 18 to try to go with me and i said ok thats ok i respect your honesty. And he told me the way he felt about me i mean it was so deep and sweet.
i havent seen him ever since over the summer. he has a myspace and everytime i'm online he isn't and everytime he's on i'm not so we really don't talk to eachother but everytime i go to my bus stop i see him and all of these feelings came back and we just can't stop looking at eachother whenver it happens. And i really miss him alot. so should i just get over him or still try to talk to him?? answers asap

2006-10-19 14:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by whaid a 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 14:00:54 · 4 answers · asked by prece88 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 14:00:35 · 15 answers · asked by Abby 1 in Family

What should i do. There's this girl i like that is 2 of my classes that always asks me for help on homework or to ask if i did this one thing. Since I'm a nice guy i always let her. Today since she didn't do one of the worksheets we had asked me at break if i did it i gave her my paper and she was like oh my god thank you so much and gave me a hug and ran off. During class she told me to sit by her to help her with another worksheet so i helped her. After that we were talking. She said I was her lifesaver and she is so gald that i helped her and stuff. After class I was joking when I said she owed me and she said Oh my god you are so nice, cute, and helpful. After that she said I know i owe you for everything and gave me another hug. I really like her but what should i do. Also we have known each other for a while and we are good friends. She doesn't use me for homework a lot. She helps me I help her. She has only asked me 2 about homework and she has helped me a lot

2006-10-19 13:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 13:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Friends

My ex husband took my kids (8 and 5) every weekend after our divorce now he has a new girlfriend with a kid and he hasn't talked to my kids or myself in 3 months. Should I bug him to be a part of their lives or just leave it alone? He also owes a lot of money for child support and now has a warrant out for his arrest. I don't know what is the best thing for me to do for my kids. I know he loves them believe it or not he has been a good father in the past. My kids really miss him.

2006-10-19 13:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by jaimek1127 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my boyfriend and I seemed to be fine all day! We cuddled like normal, whispering to each other. We hugged and kissed and all that good stuff....we held hands and life seemed normal...just like every other day! Then, his best friend comes up to me and asks me how I was taking it. And, I go 'how am I taking what?' and he says, 'KJ, you don't have to hide it....how are you taking being single?' and I go 'What are you talking about? I'm still going out with Richie! We love each other!' and he goes 'Um....well...' then he ran off. But, things seemed fine today! Do you think he would have acted weird if he was going to break up with me? Don't you think he would have hessatated to be cuddly and junk?
Do you think his friend could have been pulling my leg? I should probably call up Richie (My boyfriend) and ask him...but, do you think that would weird him out or somthing? I don't know. I'll take any advice. Ya'll are the best ever! Thanks so much for helping!

2006-10-19 13:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by Kaitlynn J 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 13:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Fragrance 420 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

To me, everything is never enough. Life is never enough, that's why we are working so hard for. Haven we all fall into commodity fetish?

2006-10-19 13:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by Princess is here 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Will you be my friend?....I'll pay you to be my friend

And..Will you love me for $800?

2006-10-19 13:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 14 y/o's best friend has had a really hard year. Her 18 y/o brother passed away suddenly on the last day of his senior year in highschool. He was her entire world! It's only been 5 months since his death, and things at home have deteriorated rapidly. Her mother has become very abusive to her, mostly verbally but she has slapped her across the face several times.
Last weekend, the mother kind of lost it. Told her daughter that she hated her, that we hated her, and then packed all their belongings and said she's moving them several states away. With everything that this poor child has gone through recently, she has become extremely depressed. She has cut herself a few times, and is threatening to commit suicide if they move.
I don't know who to talk to about this! I'm afraid that if I go to her mom it will only make it worse as her mothers not in her right mind. I would appreciate any advice on this. Do I go to CPS, the school, who? I just found all this out tonight.

2006-10-19 13:57:10 · 17 answers · asked by Injustice sucks 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 13:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are very calm casual people. We are going to have a semi-formal wedding, in a church. Then we are going to have a reception at a local hotel in town.
Does anyone have any fun ideas for our wedding? We are going to have a candy buffet for the party favors. We are just looking for any ideas to make our wedding fun and rememberable.
Thanks for you imput.

2006-10-19 13:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Weddings

I've this crush on this girl who is in one of my classes which is spanish class and i dont know if I should ask her out or even how to. We are both 15 if that matters, she is also new to the school and also im actually pretty good looking and so is she. two weeks ago I found out she liked me but I didnt act on it and a week later I started getting a crush on her and thats when our teacher had a new seating plan. Right now I dont seat besider her any more and bearly talk to her becuase she is in the oppsite side of the room but some how I still like her. Im not sure if she likes me still but right now its hard to tell.I know that I should have asked her out a week ago but I'm one of those guys who are shy and now i need your help to find out what to do. Thanks!

2006-10-19 13:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Being out casted is harsh enough but do you say you dont care what people look like to be your friend and you secretly do care. Do you care who you are seen with?

2006-10-19 13:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by bbw_kitten_pow 1 in Friends