Being out casted is harsh enough but do you say you dont care what people look like to be your friend and you secretly do care. Do you care who you are seen with?
2006-10-19 13:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by bbw_kitten_pow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone judges other people by their looks and actions, if you think you don't, you are kidding yourself!
And yes I care who i am seen with, see above!
2006-10-19 13:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it may not sound like it, but this is the honest truth.
I seriously DON"T judge people by their looks, I see if I have anything in common, if the have a good personality, or if I think they are just a good person overall.
I mean, I used to judge people by their looks, a lot.
But then I realised that people would do the same to me too. And i didn't want that to happen. If you looked a certain way or acted a certain way. It's really only matters who you are. And you can always change yourself, or how you look, if you want to.
I did that when I changed schools. I tried to change how I looked and acted. I guess it worked, but people I knew before still remembered me as the person I was a few years ago. So it worked, but only on the people I had just met. And I've showed them how I used to look and stuff, and they actually liked me like that too. So i figured out that it didn't really matter how you look. Looks help, but they're not everything.
Now I don't really care who I'm seen with. If their a nice person and a good friend, then who really cares? There are lots of people in my school, and we all look different. If you don't like someone based on how they look, then you should take a look at their personality. If there a good person, then maybe your not giving them all the credit they deserve.
When I first met my best friend, I thought she was extremely scary and didn't like me. She was just so quiet and her face was ALWAYS expresionless, so I had no idea what she was like. But as I got to know her I found out that we had so much in common, and we became really close, even though I don't think she likes to admit it. So ya, we been great friends for years, and still are. I judged her based on her looks in the beginning, and that was a huge mistake on my part.
But occasionally I still do judge people on how they look. Only if I just meet them though, and have no idea who they are or what they're like. Not what they wear or if they look perfect, but what their looks say about them and the kind of people they are.
And I guess it's kinda hard to judge people based on what they wear (in my school), because we have uniforms. And the colours are extrememly ugly and don't match, so they make everyone look bad. ^_^
2006-10-19 14:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kalia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really im one of the very few ppl who dont really care that much on looks lyk ive lyked almost any kind of boy. but the thing is i dont care if they aint exactly fine or anything as long as they got something cute about them and if they have a nice personality
2006-10-19 14:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I try and act like I don't judge people on their looks but sometimes if I am hanging out with someone that I feel is trashy looking or... you know... I feel a bit embarrased and wander what are other people thinking.
2006-10-19 13:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am ashamed to say it..but yes, i really want to stop, but next thing i know am doing it, and yes, i do care who am seen with, not because of the "who they are" but because of what they look like and what they are wearing, i dont care of the designer they have on there backs, but how that combine, match or wear it.
2006-10-19 14:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me all the time. People juge me without really getting to know me. I don't care whgo I'm seen with
2006-10-19 16:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I say I don't judge a person by their looks, I mean it. I look past a person's looks and to their personality, always have....its the way I was raised.....
2006-10-19 13:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks gets a person interested but their personality keeps them.
2006-10-19 13:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by rand_32000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i do, but not all the time, i like a pure geek rite now, so only sometimes
2006-10-19 14:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Des'ree is how to spell my n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih honestly ALMOST..especially jerks!
2006-10-19 13:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋