should it be a catagory
2006-10-19 14:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by lancashiretasty 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that's a very common emotion to have with a newborn baby to care for. i've had 4 kids and had that same feeling with all of them.
it's all very overwhelming right now...the responsibility,the innocent life that is totally dependant on you right now.
and you do deserve him.
it get's better each day . hang in there!
2006-10-19 14:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by wildflowerrb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what makes you say that. Everyone deserves their children, and every children deserve their parents. If you think you have some faults or problems like drinking, then you can fix that for the sake of your son. You guys can start to learn how to be good to each other.
2006-10-19 15:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by ono 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you may or may not have done to make you think this doesn't matter any more hes here now ,love him ,guide him, make him feel special and can achieve any thing he'll love you unconditionally just because your his mum .being a mum is the best thing in the world give yourself time and enjoy being with him. it only gets better the older they are good luck x
2006-10-19 23:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have not said why you think you don't deserve him.
But you have got him, so make the most of him, you have him to love and care for - question nothing else, hold him in your arms, kiss his head and be really grateful you have him.
2006-10-23 08:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, everybody deserves a son or daughter
2006-10-19 14:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, enjoy and guide. Never mind whether you deserve him or not. You be there for him always, never be judgemental but understanding and caring. With humour and respect he will deserve you.
2006-10-19 14:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh bless of course you deserve him hes your son i bet hes a cute,most new mums have mix up feelings when they have had a baby,but he needs you like you need him keep your chin up cause its the best thing in the world to become a mum good luck.............
2006-10-19 21:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep loving him and he will tell you whether you deserve him or not.
2006-10-19 14:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by poppy vox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you deserve him....he chose you to be his mummy...what makes you think you don't deserve him? there must be a reason...he is a beautiful gift.....he's yours....love and cherish this child....he loves you already....you may have the baby blues hun....i suggest you talk to your midwife and ask her why your feeling this way....love your baby and love yourself
2006-10-19 15:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it mean " you don't deserve him"?
just make sure you don't stop loving him...he didn't ask to be born
as well as love, you have a duty to him, you are his mother and have responsibilities
good luck to you
2006-10-19 19:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋