i have a friend who is depressed. we are both 15 year old and are high school sophmores. she is depressed because a guy she had a crush on is going out with her best friend. this is not a simple crush because she tells me she really loves him and the two are very good friends. she started cutting herself and starving her self (ive also been trying to make her stop this habit)after she saw the couple's picture on myspace. i dont what to say to her exactly because the guy's gf is also one of my best friends. she cries a lot and when i see her she looks happy but i know shes suffering because when we have heart to heart talks shes crying internally. what advice should i give.
2006-10-19 14:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to explain to your friend that you love her and you don't want to see her in hurt or in pain.
Tell her that she has to stop cutting, if she loves you, because it's making you depressed to see her self mutilation.
Then, get her some help. You have to speak up because speaking up about her situation could save her life.
2006-10-19 14:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something deeper than just a love gone bad situation. Your friend is unstabe emotionally and needs mental health help. If it was't this she would be cutting herself over something else more or less important, Talk to her parents and tell them the situation before it's too late and you have some real guilt on you mind because you didn't do the right thing. Your friend is unable to help herself and you must do it for her before it's too late.
2006-10-19 21:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by number42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im 16 and ive had the same problem many a time.. this is what my friends told me ALEX SHUT THE **** UP AND GET OVER YOURSELF lol not the best advice they did advise me to get checked by a doctor for a metal condistion and it turns out along with the emotional pain teens usually experience i had a mild depresstion well , i got meds for it and I've felt alot better maybe things will get better if you get your friend checked
2006-10-19 21:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Exsavior my son is the coolest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....wow....it may sound like your mother talking, but she's too yung to be "loving" anybody one thing i will tell you cause i also suffer from depresion, is KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON HER. she might turn suicidal, specially if her parents dont support her, schools usually have am IMPACT group and its confidencial. if she has a good relationship with her mom let her know, what going on. try to distract her..take her out. back in school i had this crush on this boy..he had it on my best friend...now we are happily married for 8 years!!..so you never know. maybe it would be a good idea if you let him know, so he can talk to her. but if it get outta your control get an adult!!!
2006-10-19 21:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs some help - perhaps professional. Talk to someone that can give her this. Doing this may cause some trouble in your relationship with her (she might get mad at you) but you could be saving her life and plus, she might even thank you later.
2006-10-19 23:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih let the guy go..i think you need an adult's help her..if she's cutting herself there's a big problme and i think you can't handle it yourself if something unexpected happen.. so please tell someone older than you the situation you're in...especially to her parents because they could help her sort things out..
2006-10-19 21:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋