Should I take this man bak and what do u think is wrong with him?

Question

I have been split up with my bf for about 7 months after a 4 yr
relationship. He's on a dating site, I see he's promising marriage to
a woman he's never met, only thru emails. Wedding in a month. I'm on
the same dating site, he's been trying to contact me, I've deleted
him, yesterday he caught me off guard, writing apoligizing for the
hurt he's caused me.He was a liar and a cheater.He broke my very
soul.I forgave him, said have a nice life. Last night he writes that
he wants to take me out & he wants to MARRY me...WTF??? I'm so
confused. I know about hoovering and sucking you bak in...well, I'm
in the middle of a vacuum right now & I'm so messed up. I want to
believe him, he told me that he had no one else, but shes on his
profile saying they are getting married in a month. HE HASN'T EVEN
MET HER. He always did this when we were together~always had
internet women he was promising to marry and I was engaged to him at
the time.
I grew up in a good family, never knew these things or people
existed. How naive of me. Now he wants to take me out tomorrow. I'm
afraid because I havent seen him in so long, I don't remember his
face , his voice &that helps.But I can't compete with these women
that he says he wants to marry but never does. He always called it
a 'game'. and that he never meant it. He has sent a few women to
mental hospitals. One girl I talked to had even bought a wedding
dress and he called her on his way [another state] and said he had a
bad car accident. NOT TRUE! He was going to shack up with another
woman. Help me understand

Answer 1

Should you go back with him? What do you think? You did not give one single reason why you should even consider this loser. Why do you even want to? You can do much, much better.

What's wrong with him? Too many things to mention here. For starters, he deals in fantasy, not reality (and you say you can't "compete"). Secondly, He has no regard for anyone but himself. By your own admission, he is a liar and a cheater.

Stay away from this snake and pray for the other women who have been sucked in to his sickness.

Answer 2

This one, you wil lnever understand, because you are a normal person and he isn't....... He is trying to pull your strings and have some control in your life... Remember what was done in the past with him...Do not forget.... History repeats itself.......
He is a con man and has a real problem... God forbid anyone who would end up with him.. I am glad you deleted his e-mail...
Honey, I would run as fast as I can in the other direction and hide...
Your sanity and your spirit are on the table ready to be served up to a very sick puppy......
Most people don't meet this kind of person in a lifetime... you are not naive,
you are lucky,,, you got away..... Go hide... don't take his calls...

Answer 3

help you understand you need to be running as fast as you can from that nut you just answer your own question get away from him lose him delete him before you end up in a mental hops. of no return you don't play with people feelings like that cause it comes back to haunt you leave don't go out don't be no damn fool! good luck

Answer 4

He is one sick puppy. You need to leave him alone. Maybe what he says to you is a game too. You will never trust him. Find someone new.

Answer 5

nope looks like hes moved on or trying to. he's been gone for 7 months who knows what he has been doing. looks like he is looking for some you know what. he hurt you and cheated on you you dont need that drama.

Answer 6

Take a from a man, get far away from this guy. He is a BIG loser! He doesn't know what he wants - he is a little boy who wants his mommy. Don't get sucked in please.