We all have our one person whom we are attracted to but dont admit it. Maybe they are less then perfect with an amazing attitude?
What about a over- wieght person. Could your flame of love for the large force you in silence or would you shout the love from the roof tops?
2006-10-19 14:25:58 · 35 answers · asked by bbw_kitten_pow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More Cushion for the pushin' ;)
2006-10-19 14:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Wraith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a happily married over weight person ( I am 5 ft even and weigh 170 lbs) who has an amazing personality and a huge sex drive I believe that a man can learn to love every inch. You might not be looking for a fat person ....but you are looking for a soul mate....and if your personalities are right then that is all that matters. And as a female I could totally go for a larger person if I wasn't married. Fat and clean are 2 different things. As long as you are clean and not a fat lazy slob....it is all in the heart...
2006-10-19 14:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, personality can really make you overlook something like extra weight on someone. If they have one of the most amazing personalities that you've ever gotten to know, then you will start to see the outside of that person differently- they will become very attractive to you. That's why when they say 'it's what;s on the inside that counts'...they really mean it- it is totally true!
2006-10-19 14:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Peach Tree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If was attracted to a person i would let everyone know no matter what was wrong with them....the only deal breaker i have is obesity, if they can't take care of themselves, how could they take care of me??. I can handle a little chubby, but obese is where i draw the line. My rule is a girl can not weigh more than me (i am 190), but i prefer a girl who weighs no more than my fighting weight (i cut down to lightweight to fight/155).
2006-10-19 14:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, thats so self centered. Ive dated overweight people...they're just like everyone else! Ive never had a problem telling an overweight person I was attracted to them, or even that I loved them...its horrible to think that someone can be so self centered they wont even admit to liking someone else, just because they are overweight.
2006-10-19 14:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you tell them, because you think you are better then them or they are not your perfect body person, thats not even right, you have issues if you can't tell the person you like that you like them because they are over weight.
2006-10-19 14:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is not skinny he is chubby but I love him so much that it doesn't really bother me. I mean he's not that huge. But he sure ain't skinny either. I have skinny guyfriends that are really good looking but in the end I still love my big teddy bear and I don't care who knows it.
2006-10-19 14:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I recently did. I found at that you fall in love with a person's personality, not their looks. That's all that matters.
2006-10-19 14:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was with an overweight woman for a few months last year, that was a fun time for the both of us.
2006-10-19 14:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how shallow to think such thoughts...go back about 70 years and show me anyone that looked like the scarecrows of today.
2006-10-19 14:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh heck yes . being a part of the older crowd, a well build lady is a special person. its so nice to cuddle togeather by a roaring fire
holding her close .
2006-10-19 14:42:28 · answer #11 · answered by tommy_19512005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋