My boyfriend's baby momma is crazy. She calls my phone all the time, she even text messages me with stuff saying my boyfriend is cheating. Recently, she left a message saying she wanted to fight me. I am scared and don't know what to do since I have never been in a fight. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to call the police on her, but he told me no because he didn't want his daughter to be without her mom. I even thought about leaving him, but the scary thing is that I think she will still try something. Any advice?
2006-10-19 14:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How did she get your number? sounds like she got it thru him. see, I have a problem with baby mama drama. Some women do not know how to leave things the way they were left and move on. She may or may not even still want him, but she definetly doesn't want to see him with another.
Now on to him...He as a man and father should have put her AZZ in check from jump! No respect at all in this situation. He knows what he is doing. The next question you really need to not be in denial about is wondering if he is still dipping off with that hoe! I will guess that he is under 35 yrs of age and so is she. Bitches don't have **** else to do but keep up mess. There is no challenge in getting someone who is attached, the challenge is getting someone who is single and keeping them. Would you let someone else lick your icecream? Of course not,see where I am going with that???
Sounds like she lost, cuz if she was done with it then she would not worry about what you two are doing. Change your number and tell him not to use it anymore to call her on. If you insist to being stubborn and want to keep your number then yes, you can file a harrassment charge against her and she will have to go to court once the papers are served. If he don't go along with that then tell him that he will be the next person getting papers served to him just for being an azz and taking up for her and her ignorance!!!!
2006-10-19 14:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay with this guy you are going to have to stand up for yourself. Women can sense fear, so the more you run the more she is going to come at you.
I was in this exact same situation before only when she called our house acting a fool, I let her have it! I know some people feel that you shouldn't stoop to an ignorant persons level, but some ignorant women only respond to some of their own medicine. Once she seen I wasn't afraid of her she stopped..
One last thing, are you sure your guy isn't still seeing his ex on the side. Most times this is the reason the for this type of behavior. They allow themselves to be used by their BD and then once he is done and ready to walk out and go back to his new girl they feel stupid and hurt. So they lash out. The guy will then use some lame excuse for protecting his BM.
Check on him, he might be in the cut instigating this love triangle, you know men get off on seeing us fight over them.
If worse comes to worse and you feel confident that he is not still dipping in the cookie jar, you might ultimately have to do like the movie hustle and flow and whoop that trick, slap that b**ch!
2006-10-19 21:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have two children both by different fathers. i don't have any of them on child support and barely ask them for anything. they both do right by there kids and i am very luck for this but it seems like i have problems with the girlfriends. why i don't know. the men don't have any other children aside from mine and i don't harass them or trip about anything. it just seems like they have this jealous thing about the communication we have, or should i say the understanding. the best thing i can tell you is to just ignore her. you have the man and she's just jealous cause things couldn't work out with them. if she continues threaten you, rather your boyfriend likes it or not. take matters in your own hand and call the law if you have to. to me he seems like he still must have feelings for her cause if he was doing what was in his daughter's best interest he would let you call. she can't keep him away from his child as long as he's doing right. and if she does. get court papers to have visitation rights.
2006-10-19 21:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right that woman is crazy all it is[ she is jealous i been through that many times with baby momma, they dont have him and they dont want you to have him she want him you know that why she f---- with you dont be scared stand your ground you dont have to fight just be strong and dont take no sh---- good luck with her drama
2006-10-19 21:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋