I was seeing a guy for about 3 mos. We had issues over me being jealous with internet chatting. And the issue of trust. The realtionship started strong, but about a month later he realized he didn't want a serious commitment being recently divorced and all. After my trip to Cali we revisted the "label", close friends rather than bf/gf and tried to work through it. He got really burned from his ex wife and well I was understanding of his situation emotionally. Over the past week he was more attentive, more affectionate but a situation changed everything within a few days.
Last week I saw my ex bf (was in Iraq) on Tues..he stayed two nights (visiting my sons), (a 3 yr relationship before he deployed). My BD was Thur and the guy I was dating told me he loved me. Saturday my ex and I went gambling, I missed the bus and didn't come home til the next day...he decided to stay out all nite meeting a girl on Sun and by Mon he moved out....what should I think if he says he needs time?
2006-10-19 14:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by issiez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were working together (24/7 situation), trying to help eachother financially. His ex wife says he has always been a cheater, and he says him and this girl he met that Fri are only friends. He questioned whether my ex and I slept together, which we didnt. I asked him if he played me and he said "no". He just wanted some time...as he walked out the door with most of his stuff including his 2 small children's he said I would see him again. My heart is broken and my mind is overwhelmed by what to think.
2006-10-19 14:24:26 · update #1
The ex wife that mentioned cheating and moving from girl to girl is his 1st ex wife not the 2nd who left him for another man and left him to raise two small children...my two are teens.
2006-10-19 14:35:52 · update #2
You are saying you had jealousy issues over his Internet chatting and yet your ex came back from Iraq, stayed a couple days at your place (visiting your son) and then you went off gambling with him and was gone over night and you can't see the problem????? You are neither one ready for a relationship. Let the man go and let yourself grow up before considering any kind of close relationship with someone else. I hear a lot of 'me, me, me in this question and not a lot about the loves in your life. You need a lot of space from this fellow. Sort through what you are feeling and see if you can find a man that you love as much as you love yourself.
2006-10-19 14:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by sistervoodoo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the friend thing never works...i know! but i would move on totally b/c it seems like he will eventually hurt you. i think you are more into this than he, he probably wants to do what he wants to do and you will get hury, trust me. it may have started out good but its rocky now.
2006-10-19 14:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 23:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a mess
2006-10-19 14:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋