He's very different from a lot of guys that I have liked. I don't even know if I like him or not. I don't think he likes me in that way though. A lot of people think hes weird but I just think hes funny... but he can be weird at times... I don't know what to do... I know I shouldn't worry about what people would say but I don't want people to make fun of me... Also I'm really shy so I wouldn't be able to tell him I likes him. what should I do I am so confused... please help! thank you
2006-10-19 14:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,you "think" you like him,so I'm gonna take that as if you said you did like him.I know you don't want to get made fun of if something was to happen,but you're friends with this guy.People would've already been laughing,cause you were hanging out with him.Cut the guy some slack.Remember,after school,no one gives a crap about popularity anymore.Popularity's a game.Don't listen to what other people have to say,unless the person that's saying it is important to you and worth listening to.Don't let people tell you he's the wrong guy cause he's just not "cool" enough.Don't tell him you like him-just be REALLY flirtacious.And remember,friendships sometimes end when dating's brung up in the woodworks.You have to remember that if the two of you break up that the friendship may not last afterwards.
2006-10-19 15:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in ur position a couple weeks ago . We decided to just be friends. But for you if u really care about this guy u should let him know. If ur shy u can just say it to him in a joke form and see what he says. He might even like u in that way too but shy to say it so u approach him first.
2006-10-19 16:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. You shouldn't worry about what other people say about him. If you like him then so be it. If you're that shy about talking to him then just write him a letter. I think a guy would react a little better with a letter than face to face anyway.
2006-10-19 15:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tony D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo that's tricky. Dating your friends isn't a great idea. about 80% of relationships fail. Chances are you might lose a friend. You said that you think he doesn't like you that way. If that is your first instinct, it is probably true. Sorry =(
2006-10-19 15:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like some one who cares what any body thinks. if it bothers you what people think then you really don't like him that much
2006-10-19 15:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by wilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stare at him alot and try and talk to him
just be like "heyy, boysname
and try and act flirtacaious
or be upfront and direct and say "I LOVE YOU!!!?!
(not recommended)
good luck
2006-10-19 15:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by pimpin around the world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋