Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

I have been living with my boyfriend of five years for three years now. We work for the apartments and don't have to pay rent and we both work other jobs.(We could lose this job and an apartment at anytime) He would rather move in with his father than try to get another place with me. I feel if you truly love someone wouldn't you do anything to keep things together? Things have been good between us, but I don't understand why he wouldn't want to try to get another place. ( I take care of everything in our home) I wouldn't have a place to go if we lose our apartment, but I would make sure I do what it takes to live on my own. Does he care anymore.. If he really loves me why wouldn't he try??? We both make enought of money to have another place and pay the bills, I just don't understand! Help

2006-10-18 18:16:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my good girl friends thought it would be funny to peak at the boys in the boy lockerrom through a secret vent, long story short i caught my exboyfriend with a guy from the basketball team making out on the bench (while no one is around) should i confront him about this? WHY ARE ALL THE NICE HOT GUYS GAY???????

2006-10-18 18:15:59 · 4 answers · asked by parrotlover65 1 in Family

I'm a female and I work and go to college. In my senior year, and I always thought that once you reach a cetain age you stop getting crushes on people. Well, there is this guy at my job I am seriously crushing on. I have been working there for about 2 years, but he just recently started working there. I think he may be interested, but I am way too shy to actually find out. I actually almost asked him if he was also interested, but at the last moment I lost my nerve. I feel really bad now, because I have kinda avoided him lately and we used to be very friendly with one another. So how should I get over this guy? Usually after I tell a guy, if he says he is not interested then my crush soon disappears, but I can't even get up the nerve to express myself this time. I think the fact that he works with me is the reason I have held back. Anyway, what should I do? If nothing else, I would at least like to go back to having nice conversations with him.

2006-10-18 18:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kit 2 in Singles & Dating

Every problem you face.

2006-10-18 18:14:02 · 1 answers · asked by jvbaker06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

time or money which 1 would u pick? time with the women n ur new child or working for money...remember u might be getting deported? if u were in this situation which one would u pick?

2006-10-18 18:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy C 1 in Family

how much money do you give for a wedding present? only one person attending and this is only a friend getting married.???

2006-10-18 18:10:46 · 13 answers · asked by vito 1 in Weddings

had a boy friend already, we are together about 7 years. among these 7 years even there are some guys want to with me. but i reject all, i never betray him in these 7 years, after 7 years. why i always want to be someone else, there is a guy crush on me again, i liked him too. i really want to make a move, but i still considering.........my BF he is still not romance, it seems doesn't care my feeling............. why i with somebody, but i still (love) someone else.

2006-10-18 18:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by cecilia 2 in Singles & Dating

my last question was about my friend being afraid of being back in the hospital, but at the same time i have another friend stacy who is going through some really hard stuff right now too. i was supposed to talk to stacy tonight but my other friend told me about the hospital thing and she wasy crying so i had to talk to her about it. what am i supposed to do with two hurting friends who both need me? i feel like im all tapped out but people still need me

2006-10-18 18:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i know i just asked a question but just wondering is there a easy way to do this and my credit stinks so no in house or whatever loans so is there still anyway????

2006-10-18 18:08:55 · 5 answers · asked by brandi_23sc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been off and on for 2 years. Right now we are on. I've broken up with her maybe two times because she is just plain mean. But I always find myself wanting her back, because I love her a lot, and I know she loves me. But tonight was a great example of her being mean. She flipped out on me because I wanted to go to a volleyball game with her and her friend. She was just like "Oh, okay. I'll just ditch my friends like I always do and go with you and not Alishia (her friend)." And I was like "Um, why can't we all go together?" And she had no good reason why we all couldn't go together other than Alishia doesn't have a boyfriend to go with. Which I understand, but it's no reason to flip out like she did. But I told her "Listen to yourself! You are being a *****! Why can't you be nice anymore?" And she started crying and she said she can't date me because she doesn't treat me like I should be treated. So I asked her if she was breaking up with me...

2006-10-18 18:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is going through menopause and I'm tired of it. One minute she is fine and then all of a suden she freaks out about something really silly and the worst part is that sometimes she blames it on me. For an example today while we were at the dinner table I lifted up my plate to put food on it and while I was lifting it up I almost hit my sister with the plate. I didn't even know so as soon as I noticed I said sorry to my sister but because of this my mom freaks out and she says "look what you did. I can't take this anymore." So she leaves the table, without even eating anything, goes to her room closes the door.

2006-10-18 18:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by d 2 in Family

ok me and my boyfriend broke up and he wont talk to me but i called him and talk to him today and he said that i told my friends to talk about him and i didnt how can i make him beleive me.....i hurt him during our relationship and i dont know how to tell him im sorry.....i would love to go back out with him but he tells me he doesnt want to get hurt again....i dont want to hurt him again we have a kid together...what can i do? what can i tell him....im suppose to go back down where he lives soon....what can i say when i see him? plz help and plz no smart remarks......i need some real help and i think everyone that helps me out just a little bit....

2006-10-18 18:06:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tomorrow, what would it be & why?

2006-10-18 18:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have had a very rocky first year of marriage and I now want to kiss and make up for the lost time so ...some rocking ideas guys!!!

2006-10-18 18:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by zaetta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. I have 2 classes which i sit close to him. he lets me look at his work when i need help, but he teases me when he does tat, by puting his hand over it but then when i look at him in the eyes he's like fine and lets me see. He also pokes me and sits next to me whenever he can, like when the person that usually sits next to me goes outside cuz they go in trouble or something. Then he helps me get my text books and papers and always smiles at me, but on msn he sometimes talks to me like asking what for homework, but the problem is that, he doesnt say bye and stuff when he leaves, and sometimes he doesnt reply back. im so confused. and on msn i always think of a topic he just doesnt always reply back. im so confused
thanks for your answer, and please dont say ask him, i dont want to wreck the friendship we have now.
thanks

2006-10-18 18:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Meow~ 4 in Singles & Dating

I would have to mail it to her and apparently gold and silver arent allowed ...

2006-10-18 18:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 18:03:00 · 1 answers · asked by JESSIE 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife of 22 years I just found out she has been cheating on me with a black guy and she is pregnant. But, She wants me to forgive her and work things out. Now after finding out she pregnant new discoveries that she has been using drugs. and owes her black guy $32,000 dollars for drugs she got high with. she also told me she really wants me to help her cause she has aids. Should I take her back and help her or get rid of her ?

2006-10-18 18:02:26 · 17 answers · asked by Jo r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to look for a good and reliable lawyer to deal with a divorce case and child custody. please help...

2006-10-18 18:01:09 · 3 answers · asked by Bliss Ann 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 18:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by eleshiak 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:59:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has been arrested for child support and violation of his probation which i made him to but not knowing it was a violation of his probation the bond for probation is set at 10,000 which is way to high i think and his child support is got backed up on accedient for 1,750 dollars he turned himself in to get it all figured out but... They want to take him to court on his probation so i dont know if i should wait its oct 30th or what I really have none of this money to get him out i work and pay my way threw school. I know some might say let him do it him self but if you have ever been in love its hard to leave someone sitting in jail! Thanks and i hope someone can help me!

2006-10-18 17:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by brandi_23sc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 17:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in college and so lonely. i was popular, outgoing, cheerleader in high school and now i dont have a single friend. i cant just join cliques, or hang out with people from my classes. what can i do?

2006-10-18 17:20:12 · 25 answers · asked by Me 1 in Friends

2006-10-18 17:19:55 · 9 answers · asked by ragged 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who not only has an std ... but shes dating a man who is clean .hes a good guy and i feel i should warn him ,but i dont want my friend mad at me because she feels theres nothing wrong with it. and that he should be the one to say to use a condom ,if he was worried . where i say that you should tell him and let him decide if he still wants to be there .help soon they hook up on friday.

2006-10-18 17:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by tiffanyh2323 3 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone share their experience? Are some men afraid you'll enjoy being with the woman more than with them?

2006-10-18 17:19:09 · 20 answers · asked by anneboz 2 in Singles & Dating

how to be friendly with my friends.

2006-10-18 17:18:09 · 2 answers · asked by Riya J 1 in Friends

so my very best friend, let's just say she's had quite a bit of experience in the sexual area of her life...she just turned 16 years old and lost her virginity at the tender age of 13. then at 14 got sexual with another guy who previously was a virgin, then again at 15...with a virgin...now keep in mind all of these relationships lasted no longer than 4 months. now her current boyfriend (who she has just started getting sexual with, he's #4) held his virginity on a pedestal, but she led him to believe that she only had sex with ONE guy a couple of times. we both know he would def. reconsider his relationship w/ her if he found out the truth, but i feel guilty knowing and not telling him. she says its for the better b/c she CANNOT lose him she is so in love. i feel absolutely horrible about it. he wouldn't even have sex with her if he knew the truth. should i tell her "You tell him the truth or I will"? is that not my place? she is my best friend but can i let her lead a life like this?

2006-10-18 17:18:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been alone for so long. I am a single mom and would love to have a partner, someone to share with, someone to appreciate me. But, I don't know how.

2006-10-18 17:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating