ok, i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. I have 2 classes which i sit close to him. he lets me look at his work when i need help, but he teases me when he does tat, by puting his hand over it but then when i look at him in the eyes he's like fine and lets me see. He also pokes me and sits next to me whenever he can, like when the person that usually sits next to me goes outside cuz they go in trouble or something. Then he helps me get my text books and papers and always smiles at me, but on msn he sometimes talks to me like asking what for homework, but the problem is that, he doesnt say bye and stuff when he leaves, and sometimes he doesnt reply back. im so confused. and on msn i always think of a topic he just doesnt always reply back. im so confused
thanks for your answer, and please dont say ask him, i dont want to wreck the friendship we have now.
thanks
2006-10-18 18:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Meow~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-18 18:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One option is to ask him directly. But if he is a shy sort of a guy that might scare him off. If you really like him, then you need to exhibitsome self-control. I would suggest that you purposefully ignore him for a while and watch his reaction. Make it a point not to ask him for help (in studies or otherwise) and avoid sitting next to him for a few days. If he comes and sits beside you then do not be over friendly and restrict your interactions to the cordial ones only. This way, if he isinterested in you, then he will act up. He will either ask you what's wrong, or give you hints that he is genuinely all over you (he might look sad, stop shaving, put on a sorry face, etc etc). If these things happen, then they are sure shot indications of his interest in you..
But mind it.. you have to act a little "hard-to-get" to begin with..
2006-10-19 01:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
it seems pretty obvious that this guy wants u, either that or he is a major tease but only u would know if thats true or not, look at how he relates 2 other girls at ur school and if he does treat u differently then u know he probably wants u
its pretty possible that this guy is pretty distant 2 every1 when chatting on msn, jokingly make sum comment about him always leaving without saying bye or not replying cos he may not have ever really thought about how that may seem 2 u,
good luck
2006-10-19 01:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by another_gorgeous_chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a big believer in not defining a relationship.
I think women like to discuss and work it out and men like to just let it happen.
If he's bailing quick on msn, that really doesn't mean much -- the real engagement of energy is when you are together.
Just let it happen at the pace it happens. If it works out -- that's great.
2006-10-19 01:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that's an interesting one. Because he's obviously flirting with you in class and all, but why he won't socialize with yout outside of class (which is what I'm understanding it the issue), I don't know. Maybe he sees you more as somebody to goof around with in class, but nothing more. Then again, he could be shy. We guys are weird like that sometimes...we'll goof around and all, but when it comes to an actual conversation or something, we freak out b/c we don't want to make a fool of ourselves.
May I suggest that instead of saying "bye" after class and waiting for him to respond, instead ask him to wait up, or pack up so you'll be ready to leave when he is, then walk with him in the halls to wherever your next destination is.
Also, try to strike up a conversation in places where he appears most comfortable.
Or going the friend-route (asking his friends if he likes you) may also work.
2006-10-19 01:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolz i love your last statement because you just answered your own question. i knoe its hard, awkward, and in your eyes risky, but in his eyes, its truthful. that way if he's not, he'll knoe that he's giving you signals and its hurting you and find ways to control his actions. if he does like you then hey! you guys can hook up! all in all, asking is the best way, and it won't wreck the friendship as long as you don't say "you like me right? cuz i really like you, you're gonna go out with me right? right? cuz i can't live without you...etc" that kinda stuff will scare him off, but just tell him "i'm confused about our relationship. i feel like i'm getting signals from you but i'm not sure, whats up" it always works out the best.
good luck!!
2006-10-19 01:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion he obviously likes you.. he just seems like one of those guys who do that. my best friend does that all the time. never says bye ont eh phone, just immediately closes it after the convo is over. but this friend is also a d**k to girls. dont know.
2006-10-19 01:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by jooosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well ask him.
Once he gets a girlfriend he might not be your friend anymore.
2006-10-19 01:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋