Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

I'm a successful middle aged professional man trying to decide between a trophy wife or just sticking with conventional whores. It seems to me that whores are cheaper, plus you get a lot more variety, so why do so many men opt for trophy wives?

2006-10-18 17:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:15:08 · 23 answers · asked by </3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Where is a good place to go have fun with a girl who is "just a friend"?? I dont want to put on any sexual pressure or anything. I just want to take her out so we both can have a good time. Plz dont say somethin like "diner and a movie". Im lookin for somethin different!!! Somethin she didnt see coming.... Thanx!!

2006-10-18 17:14:39 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Long 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend that I have been with almost a year gave me a gorgeous ring. He says it is more than a promise ring but it is not my engagement ring. So what does the ring mean? He says one day we will get married, but this just not the right time. Why do men have to be so complicated in these matters?

2006-10-18 17:14:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by hey-hey 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine would be the small of my back...

2006-10-18 17:12:34 · 8 answers · asked by Emery 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with this guy, and he says that he loves me but I don't kn ow whether or not he is just using me or does he really love me for real. I have been messing with him for 5 months we have had our share of ups and downs, but most of the downs were his fault, but anyway I found out thst he was messing around with this girl and he says he is not but when I asked her she said that they were. He tells me all the time that he doesn't mess with her or like her I don't know what to believe. Well, the reason I think that he may just be using me is because number one he is paralyzed from the waist down and he still lives at home with his mother and I do anyhting to help him out there is no limit to what I would do for him but I strongly believe that he is taking advantage of me because he thinks that I am so nice and naive. I keep giving him chances and he keeps messing up, I told him that I never wanted to see that girl at his house ever again and today when I came home I saw her.

2006-10-18 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy friends are starting to hit on me and flirt with me more than they ever did
not only my friends but my friends boyfriends and her ex boyfriends do it and i dont know them that well
should i be worried about what my boyfriends going to do the guys that are his friends doing it

2006-10-18 17:11:25 · 2 answers · asked by reddevil_149699 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is afraid that she might go back into the hospital and i dont know what to say to her. ive said the normal "dont worry you'll get better, and no matter your not alone and im always here for you" stuff but i dont know what else to say to her to encourage her and make her feel like everything is ok. please help

2006-10-18 17:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if i was dating a guy off and on for two yrs, and i decided to break up with him because he doesnt treat me right and doesnt act like he care. and if he finds out another guy is at my house and that i changed my number, what do you think he might do? he did tell me he knows where i stay and that if someone is there they will have to leave. but he has never popped up at my home before and he is not the violent type. so do you think he was just playing with me ? or do you think he will try and get back with me once he sees that i dont care anymore? he is use to me going back to him and taking him back. so this will be a first time change up on him. what do you think?

2006-10-18 17:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by coastie 4 in Singles & Dating

A guy who loves his girl Friend. Would do anything for her..buys her nice things, cares for her at all tyms, esp when she's emotionally down..( like coming down in an exam or arguments with parents...stress etc.)he even pays her phone bills, travelling and all that...and doesnt expect much in return...he loves her for who she is...never trying to change her...

but after the 1st anniversary or so...he changed a bit in a bad way.like he got a a bit jealous and then was over protective and was a bit harsh on her...( ALL THIS BAD STUFF ARE IN ADDITION TO HIS "GOOD" QUALITIES) he has even asked this gal in marriage...

HE HAS ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE SEX INSPITE OF THIS GAL TELLING HIM THAT SHE WANTS TO REMAIN A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE...HE HAS EVEN TRIED TO DO IT...

WHT DOES ALL THIS TELL ABT THIS GUY?

2006-10-18 17:09:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Marriage is in trouble. I believe we need counseling and reluctantly my hubby has agreed to go. Problem? Not many Marriage/Family Therapist to choose from in our insurance plan. Should we see a clinical psychologist or other specialist in this field or stick with the few choices (no males) in our area who are specifically Marriage/Family Therapist?
Thanks so much for your answers and feel free to go into detail about different marriage counseling choices if you want to share.

2006-10-18 17:08:57 · 6 answers · asked by jlgj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 17:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

I MET THIS GUY ONLINE LIKE A YEAR AGO. WE TALKED ON A REGULAR BASIS FOR A WHILE, ONLINE. JUST RECENTLY I STARTED TO TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE. I REALLY LIKE HIM AND HE IS A GENUINE GUY. I MAY HAVE MADE UP A FEW LIES ABOUT MYSELF AT THE BEGINNING BECAUSE I NEVER REALLY THOUGHT HE WOULD BE SOMEONE I COULD SEE MYSELF MEETING. NOW I WANT TO MEET HIM. I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM I LIED IN THE VERY BEGINNING ABOUT A FEW THINGS. IM AFRAID HE WILL BE UPSET AND NOT WANNA TALK ANYMORE. I SHOWED HIM A FAKE PICTURE AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM. IM NOT AFRAID I WONT BE WHAT HE WANTS BUT IM AFRAID OF HIS REACTION. PLEASE TELL ME IF I SHOULD JUST GIVE UP OR BE HONEST. I FEEL SO BAD. I DIDNT THINK AT FIRST IT WOULD EVER BE LIKE THIS, I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST CHATTING ONLINE! NOW I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM...PLEASE HELP ME! THANKYOU

2006-10-18 17:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by DENAYA B 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-18 17:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That blows my mind!

2006-10-18 17:05:41 · 24 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Singles & Dating

i am in a wedding saturday - what are my duties - i don't want to ruin the wedding...i am a bridesmaid in a large 300+ wedding/reception

2006-10-18 17:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by illinois_girl_1973 3 in Weddings

Hey, I'm a Fifteen year old girl. The Problem.I like a Seventeen year old boy. We both go to the same highschool, and We both often chat from time to time, usually after school. We'll talk about the music we like(Metal), and hang around with the other people that stay after school. We both seem to hit it off, and by all means, I am not a slut type girl. In all honesty, I've never gotten as far as holding hands with a guy. The whole thought, is scary. What should I do? I mean, I'm really starting to like him...Is that bad?

2006-10-18 17:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by kreatorgirl 2 in Friends

1. Is there a difference b/n french kissing and making-out kissing?
2.So far, my girlfriend and i, we'r up to kissing, but wats next, kuz im kinda bored of just kissing, like whats the next step?
3.How do u carry out the next step?
4.Be reasonable witht hte fact that we're 13/14 years old, so dunt say sex is the next step.

2006-10-18 17:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:04:42 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Planning a special day for me and my fiancee.. does anyone have any good ideas of what to do .. and Im tired of just movies and dinner. ... something romantic and fun..

2006-10-18 17:04:16 · 3 answers · asked by xoxocindysxoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a man for 3 weekes now everything was going great until i heard that he was looking at other women and supposely trying to get envolved with them i dont understand it he said he really liked me, but i dont know i just want this question to be answered

2006-10-18 17:03:45 · 28 answers · asked by watermelonlvr 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this for everyone who has lost their father, including myself.

My Dad

My dearest dad 'I love you',
I think of you each day.
I feel your arms around me,
that's how I get through my days.

Your looking down upon me,
to guide me on my way,
but its very hard without you,
each and every single day.

People always tell me,
the grieving will subside.
But how can I feel better,
without you by my side.

No matter how hard they try,
there is always so much pain,
I am all consumed by thinking,
It will never, be the same.

I know one day we'll meet,
in the Heavens up above.
It's the only thing that helps me,
to never forget, your love.

My dearest Dad, I love you,
Your with me every day.
I will keep this love within me,
forever, until that beautiful day.

By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

2006-10-18 17:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 17:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by </3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an asian bifemale and I was wondering why i tend to be attracted to white girls mostly. I came up with some asumptions, most blacks that i've liked really wanted to date blacks only, and hispanic girls tend to date with their own race/nationality too. I think its harder to find other Asian bifemales b/c there's not a lage asian population in where i live. So do u think my preference for white girls has to do with the fact of my past experiences...n not b/c of their pyshical attributes?

2006-10-18 17:03:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but after a while they want the control???

2006-10-18 17:01:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 17:01:10 · 12 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 17:00:24 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex dated for a year. It ended badly and we didn't talk for 3 weeks. then the other day i asked her if we could talk and she said no. She said we are done for real this time. That was the end of the conversation. The next day my brother and my friend invited me to the state fair. I went. Right when we were about to leave, I saw my ex with her family and her ex before me. i did nothing about it. now i live in phoenix. there are millions of people. i didnt know that she would be there. and the fair is big. you could be there for hours and not run into 1/50th of the people who are there. the odds of me seeing her the next day or crossing paths has to be one in a zillion. what does this mean?

2006-10-18 17:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating