I need help I know this is dumb to ask but i need to know if my boyfriend is cheating on me so please help!!!!

Question

I think he is because sometimes he stops talking to me for a while (few weeks) then comes back saying he loves me and so on... plus i talked to him through a yahoo dating thing by making a fake profile and he said she was beautiful and all these other things and im wondering if he does that with other girls

Answer 1

How can we help? You give us no pertinent data.

Peace.

Answer 2

If you suspect he's cheating, I think it's a good bet that he is.
It would help to have some additional info.
Here are some tell-tale signs.
His attitude toward you has suddenly changed. He may be distant, cold or even hostile.
He's overly critical & hypersensitive.
He's no longer affectionate & may reject your affection.
He spends less & less time with you & always makes excuses for it.
Even if you never bring up the subject, he vehemently denies cheating & becomes defensive. MAJOR WARNING SIGN!
This kind of behavior also seems to cut across gender lines.

Answer 3

The most straight-forward thing to do is to ask him directly. Ask him bluntly, and tell him that you will really appreciate him if he's honest with you. But you will have to promise yourself that you won't storm out if he did. Just tell him that you are offended, and try to solve it in a cool-headed way.

The other way is to send your friend, the one he didn't know, to seduce him and you can see what happened. Make sure the friend that you send over is the one you can trust! The risk to this is, if your boyfriend turn out not cheating, than you'll lost his trust, and that is one big problem.

Another way to find out is to start screening his calls, monitoring his schedule, and stalking him (in extreme cases). He will be hating you for not trusting him, and as his privacy is intruded, he might broke you up. But you might got the chance to actually caught him red-handed.

The last thing that you can do is, just let him be. Most guys cheat on their girlfriend, and that's not much we, as girls, can do. All you can do is to trust your heart. If you can still handle it, as much as you love him, than just let him. If you can't handle it anymore, than broke him up. It's all depending on your resiliency and your intention about this relationship.

Answer 4

Honey if you have to ask there is obviously some doubt about him in your mind. If you have not yourself been cheating to acquire a guilty conscience, there is a reason your intuition has shown itself. Think about it, your the only one who can decide if he is what he says he is. But if you have doubt, maybe there is a good reason. Also, don't let what someone else may have done to you in the past interfere now. Let sleeping dogs lay. There is a reason they are in your past.

Answer 5

First off, why do you think he is cheating?? But other then that... if he acts one way around you and another way when you two are together when around yours or his friends... chances are he is hiding something. Maybe cheating

Answer 6

How can anyone give an opionon to this question when you dont even say why you think he is cheating?

Answer 7

u just ask him and see.u will know his cheating or not coz u really love him Ur heart will give the answer

Answer 8

you have 2 options: Move on, or deal with it. You could always check his phone, email, ect... but beware, you may not like what you see.

Answer 9

You're messed. If you think he is then chances are he is. Can't make anything worse by asking him if he is.

Answer 10

Yes he is and I'll tell you how I know for 19.99.