if i was dating a guy off and on for two yrs, and i decided to break up with him because he doesnt treat me right and doesnt act like he care. and if he finds out another guy is at my house and that i changed my number, what do you think he might do? he did tell me he knows where i stay and that if someone is there they will have to leave. but he has never popped up at my home before and he is not the violent type. so do you think he was just playing with me ? or do you think he will try and get back with me once he sees that i dont care anymore? he is use to me going back to him and taking him back. so this will be a first time change up on him. what do you think?
2006-10-18 17:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is trying to intimidate you, and i hope you stick to y our guns and find a man who will treat you right.
2006-10-18 17:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all make up your mind that you are really going to leave. Secondly, don't just from man to another. Have some down time in between. Spend some time with yourself. In doing that you will see how the break up with effect him. When you naturally meet someone, move on. Don't throw another person into that type of situation casually. Just because he hasn't been violent doesn't mean that won't push him, especially if he is use to you leaving and coming back.
2006-10-18 17:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he thinks. Read what you wrote, he does not treat you right. Need I say more. How old are you anyway? I find it odd that you would volunteer information about him NOT being violent. I think you know he is capable of doing something that could hurt or scare you. I think you should cut your loses and leave him alone. How does this new guy treat you.
2006-10-18 17:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be with you but no one else can have you either, it's a game and it's his way of trying to still hold on and control you. No, he won't come around and don't let him stop you from going out and finding someone that will treat you right.
2006-10-18 17:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did say he doesnt treat you good, so whos to say he wont act in a vengeful way. You shouldnt throw it in his face just tell him its over but at least end in a good note and not in a crazy way.
2006-10-18 17:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing mind games with you. Keep away from him. He sounds like bad news.
2006-10-18 17:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lavina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably was hurt once and scare to let go so he won't get hurt again
2006-10-18 17:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to treat u better, but doesnt know how.
He is jealous.
2006-10-18 17:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by rswrew2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE QUESTION IS WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO, IT REALLY
SOUND LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WAT. THIS BACK
AND FORTH STUFF IS NOT COOL, IF YOU DONT WANT TO
BE WITH HIM THEN YOU NEED TO STOP THE GAMES, IT
NOT FAIR TO HIM OR YOU. GET IT TOGETHER. BECAUSE
HE MAY NOT BE THE VIOLENT TYP[E BUT SOMEONE CAN
TAKE SO MUCH BEFORE HE SNAP.
2006-10-18 17:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mind that pig,,, just go on,, cross the bridge if you got there,,
2006-10-18 17:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by mhykz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋