I have been seeing a man for 3 weekes now everything was going great until i heard that he was looking at other women and supposely trying to get envolved with them i dont understand it he said he really liked me, but i dont know i just want this question to be answered
2006-10-18 17:03:45 · 28 answers · asked by watermelonlvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking is one thing but if he's asking others out then he isn't wanting a commitment. Ask him, that's truly the only way to find out what he wants.
2006-10-18 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think men just need the attention from more then 1 women. Not always true but in some cases. Some men just like the thrill and some just really dont care if they hurt women. It's a control thing. For one thing hon, if you only have been seeing him for 3 weeks, then you just saved yourself a nightmare. his true colors came out already if you know what i mean. You need to find a man that is interested in what you do say need etc. if he cant live up to them standards then you dont need em. Be in control of the game dont let them control you. good luck and keep looking because the right man is out there and you will find him when you least expect it. good luck!
Jenni
2006-10-19 00:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are easily distracted for many different reasons, as all men are different. Some men are just not capable of being monogamous with one woman. And some men just like to look at other women. But if the man is totally in love with you, he would not be looking at other women and trying to get involved with them. He may well like you very much but he can still be a tomcat. I wouldn't pick out your engagement ring just yet.
2006-10-19 00:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to put this in metaphoric terms. Women are like Jeopardy contestants...we are complex, smart and think about things from every angle. Men on the other hand...are more like Wheel of Fortune contestants...they are fascinated by bright, shiney objects. Not alot of thought goes into their logic.
Not all men are this way, but it's a safe statement considering what's out there. If you've only been seeing him for 3 wks, cut your losses now before you get really involved and it's not as easy. You'll find the right one honey....it's just not him.
2006-10-19 00:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he really liked you, which may be true. But like does not equate with love. He's still testing the waters, looking for good grazing land. He may or may not become your "steady" man. But 3 weeks?
Gimme a break.
No man wants to lock up a relationship of only 3 weeks!
2006-10-19 00:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that 3 weeks is long enough to decide if you want a commited relationship with someone.
Are you sure that it was even discussed that it would be a proper relationship or have you just gone out a few times in that 3 weeks.
If you want to find out what is happening with him then ask.... HIM not us....
2006-10-19 00:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple! When the right man comes along you will know it! Yeah sounds blah, but its true. Not all men are distracted only the ones that are not for you. Hang in there he will find you....
2006-10-19 00:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Piglet66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he likes you doesn't mean he is going to close his eyes. Maybe you are nice but not exactly what he is looking for or not his perfect match. I would suggest you wait a little while and see what he does he may find that you are his type and the other chic is not.
2006-10-19 00:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking at a woman that is attractive is natural. getting with other women behind your back is a problem. if he is trying to pursue other women then he is a player and someone you need to get a way from.
2006-10-19 00:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason women have that problem. They are human and made that way by nature.
You were probably not that close to what he was really looking for.
2006-10-19 00:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋