I am in love with this guy, and he says that he loves me but I don't kn ow whether or not he is just using me or does he really love me for real. I have been messing with him for 5 months we have had our share of ups and downs, but most of the downs were his fault, but anyway I found out thst he was messing around with this girl and he says he is not but when I asked her she said that they were. He tells me all the time that he doesn't mess with her or like her I don't know what to believe. Well, the reason I think that he may just be using me is because number one he is paralyzed from the waist down and he still lives at home with his mother and I do anyhting to help him out there is no limit to what I would do for him but I strongly believe that he is taking advantage of me because he thinks that I am so nice and naive. I keep giving him chances and he keeps messing up, I told him that I never wanted to see that girl at his house ever again and today when I came home I saw her.
2006-10-18 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well sweetie you told him one time and he done it anyway so the way i see it is yes he might just be usin you cause you will come runnin when ever he calls and that is not fair to you. you need someone you can trust and i dont think it is him. so give him the boot and the girl and you move on with your life and find someone real!!
2006-10-18 17:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by babygyrl19832000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likely feels very inadequate. Try and put yourself in his shoes. He needs and loves the attention he gets from you and this other woman. He doesn't sound like the settling down type, especially if he still lives with his mom. Be his friend, but don't count on walking down the aisle with him.
2006-10-18 17:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if a girl tells you she is his girlfriend its most likely true..men are liars and will do anything to get away with it..he is using you..if he cared for you like he says he does he would tell that girl to leave him alone and in front of you he would of asked her why she is saying that they are together when they are not..if he hasnt its because its true...ive been thruogh that..so just move on and dont help him let his momma take care of his *** and his lover..you deserve better..he is a joke..s
2006-10-18 17:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest communication is the key. Tell him how you feel, and tell him that if he messes with someone else, you will move on because you deserve to be treated well----and so far he is not doing it!
2006-10-18 17:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Trust your instincts if you feel you're being used you probably are. You can care for him from afar as a friend but keep him at arm's length.
2006-10-18 17:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE, HE USING YOU AND THAT NOT RIGHT, I WOULD BE HIS FRIEND BUT
I WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH SOME DISRESPECT ME,
THAT BULL CRAP. IF HE REALLY IS NOT WITH HER, THEN
OUT OF RESPECT HE SHOULD HAVE NOT LET HER BE
THERE WHEN YOU CAME TO SEE HIM SINCE YOU AND HE
ARE TOGETHER.
2006-10-18 18:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suspicions are correct - sorry but it is time for you to move on.
2006-10-18 17:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋