so my very best friend, let's just say she's had quite a bit of experience in the sexual area of her life...she just turned 16 years old and lost her virginity at the tender age of 13. then at 14 got sexual with another guy who previously was a virgin, then again at 15...with a virgin...now keep in mind all of these relationships lasted no longer than 4 months. now her current boyfriend (who she has just started getting sexual with, he's #4) held his virginity on a pedestal, but she led him to believe that she only had sex with ONE guy a couple of times. we both know he would def. reconsider his relationship w/ her if he found out the truth, but i feel guilty knowing and not telling him. she says its for the better b/c she CANNOT lose him she is so in love. i feel absolutely horrible about it. he wouldn't even have sex with her if he knew the truth. should i tell her "You tell him the truth or I will"? is that not my place? she is my best friend but can i let her lead a life like this?
2006-10-18 17:18:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the truth will come out sooner or later so i would tell her look you have no right lieing to this boy and then when he does find out the truth tear his poor heart out because of lies!!so put it like this "look either you tell him or i will cause you have no right liein to him about this and im not gonna stand by and watch you ruin this poor innocent boys life cause if you really love him then you wouldnt hindin stuff from him especually something like this" just be honest with her!! you shouldnt have to watch her do this and you dont have to!! put your foot down to her cause sooner or later when he finds out the truth and then finds out that you knew all along and never said nothing about it to him then he will hate you as well as hate her!! so just be honest!!
2006-10-18 18:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by babygyrl19832000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snitch on her... itll make you feel better lol
2006-10-18 17:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce her to lots more boys
2006-10-18 17:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋